It's 2024 - why all the "must be negative" demands?

[Guest toxicgun]

I get that few men want to contract HIV but given the strides made in antivirals and pRep, ask yourself are you allowing fear to control you?   Probably.

I assume everyone has heard "You're safer with a undetectable poz guy who discloses their status,  versus someone who doesn't get tested and doesn't know their status."  

Being positive now for nearly 33 years,  I do have a pet peeve of educating yourself well on this subject, because 1) I'm weary of being shunned because I'm not "clean" and 2) the serostatus you save may be your own.

THOUGHTFUL replies welcome; emotionally ignorant responses will be deleted.