BB or not BB?

[Hkun763]

I tell men I'm highly detectable and that gets them so so hot for my seed!

[manfish770]

I will always do Barebacking as a total confirmed bottom, I became a convert to BB Sex, (Bareback Sex), over time ever since that time that I received my first cum load up my man pussy or man cunt, I've become more and more turned off on the idea of so called Safe Sex, i.e. Condom Based Sex, what I would call CBS and I don't mean the US American Based TV Broadcasting Station.​

Well since 2009 in November when I was diagnosed with HIV, I stopped having sex all together for some time, then I started again nearly a year later, but with condoms, funny enough a year after I was diagnosed positive, my friend took the courage to get tested, he was tested Negative, yet he was the one that was fucking me bareback, I may have picked up the virus from another guy at a spa sauna place some time earlier, not knowing that I had it and my regular guy was still fucking me bare and blowing his load deep inside of me.

Well shortly after we r​summed our fucking, with condoms for a while, then he said, without saying it, Fuck this, he started fucking me bare like we did before, but that was before I started on my meds, now that I'm on my meds, I'm at a safer happy place with an undetectable levels with my viral load, even after starting my meds my Viral load has been kept at undetectable levels, even when he's been breading my pussy with his seed.

So all I can say is that I'll always have Bareback Sex, sure there are still risks, we take risks when crossing the road, going out and about, the risk even crossing at the lights that some idiot would not stop at the lights and you might get hit by that idiot in the car, the risk that you might get mugged while you are out and about, it happens but it doesn't normally happen to everyone but it does happened.

​I So despite all of this, I'll still have Bareback Sex because of good medication and the future of even better medications in the future, to eventually a cure for HIV, but I'm ahead of myself, so keep barebacking and keep your equipment clean to lower the risks of other STIs.​

[Guest Bbslave]

As a total bottom slave, my purpose is to accept all & any loads from Tops & others to ensure little or no wastage.

[Guest]

BB only or not at all

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[Guest youngun88]

used to be safe all the time then met one guy who would not wear so gave in. now i do not often get a choice. told what to do most times but most guys go bare.

[snaketat]

No doubt, bareback sex is, for me, more fulfilling than any safe sex ever was. As a life long queer, I adhered to all the safe sex bullshit for many years. A few years back, I did have some bareback sex and realized what I was missing. I also recognized the risks associated with that. It took me some time to understand the risks and what the ramifications of STI infections (including HIV) could be. I knew I had to understand my own ability to manage those risk/results It was my belief that I had to assume infection would happen. If not, the great sex would be a high price to pay for something I was unprepared for.

I started barebacking (I am a bottom only guy) last August. I tested poz the Monday after Thanksgiving last year. The guy who posed me was stealthing when in fact he had a high VL. I was not sero-sorting, so that result was certainly NOT unexpected. Other than a week of somewhat aggravating fuck flu, I have had few issues.

What is most amazing has been the realization the poz guys....and now me as well, seem to have a really open and expressive sex life. Losing the fear that was beat into our heads as part of the safe sex bullshit seems to open a whole new experience.

Yeah....there is the Prep option. and for some that is fine. There are lots of reasons I chose to avoid Prep. No doubt my infection is part of the result. Still, for me, the decision to go raw has been good.

[Guest barehole4use]

No loads refused bareback bttm here, i will never go back to smoking the same goes for condoms too, yukkie just the thought of a condom going in my ass makes me feel ill. i always tell the fucker if it's wrapped it's not going in my ass. Nowadays i will refuse to be fucked with a condom on.

[Guest cumbear]

Like many on here I only played safe until I that one time when for whatever reason I took my first raw cock and load.  For me that moment was with my then current boyfriend (now x-BF but still fuck buddies). He had wanted to take my ass raw for a long time and one night I finally gave in. We agreed that he had to pull out before he came but once I felt his raw cock inside me my inner slut was awakened and took control. To his credit he tried to pull out as he neared orgasm but I so into the experience I wrapped my legs around his back and held him inside me as I begged him to cum in my ass. We never wore condoms again after that night and remained BB fuck buddies even after we broke up.

When we broke up and I started playing the field again I went back to condoms but found the sex somewhat unsatisfying. Then one night while traveling for business in Philadelphia I brought a hot bear back to my hotel room after a night of partying at the gay clubs. We started with the usual kissing, groping, undressing, and sucking but hadn't really discussed what other fun we might get up to. As we continued to play he suddenly and without warning rolled me face down in the bed, climbed on top and drove his raw cock deep in my ass.  Once again my inner slut took control  -- I wanted his load and got it. I was staying in town another two nights and both of those nights I went to sleep with his load in my ass. That was pretty much the end of me using condoms with hookups and anon fucks.  

I prefer to get fucked BB but over the years I have evolved into submissive bottom and I give in to whatever the top wants so I occasionally get fucked with a wrapped dick. But I'm a naughty sub an sometimes take control.  I let the top start with a condom but at some point I will reach around and remove it.  I've done this to many tops and only a few have gotten pissed off and either left or put on another condom. The rest just gave in to their primal desires and kept fucking me raw until I had their load in my ass. Many came back for seconds and didn't even bother with the condom on return visits.

[mrcub1]

On 3/5/2008 at 7:00 PM, Guest TokyoDickDrainer said:

BB men understand that a MAN'S load was meant to go inside a MAN'S hole, not into a rubber condom.

Never have it any other way.

BB is best

I like how you phrased that.  Very true!

[mrcub1]

On 6/10/2014 at 12:20 PM, GymRatTop said:

Usually let the bottom man make the call... Have had a few guys with a single condom that has broken in the middle of a hot fuck. I can usually feel it so I pull out. Have had more than one occasion where the bottom has shucked the rubber off my cock and guided me right back inside his ass.. They fuck so much better once they feel a raw cock in their ass. I'm sure they love it just as much as I do. Sometimes, but not always, I ask if they want me to pull out when I blow. I love the guys that tell me not to pull out and to shoot inside them. It's hot as hell when a bottom stud begs for my load.

Damn, GymRat, you are a sexy fucker!

[bigloadluvr]

Only bareback ever.  I love being a cumdump.

[crown1081]

Bareback only for me. I have and will continue to deny "safe-only" cock.

[Guest Huffer69]

All the time - every time - BARE IS BEST !! 

[captain]

I love bareback.  I feel more connected and I love feeling his cock head expand inside me then shoot his loads

[Bbbttmslt49]

I've NEVER used condoms and never will.  I choosen partners that are only into bb sex.  To me, its purely natural.   I've always believed that putting on a condom ruins the mood and what was always meant to be.  Besides the thought and feel of my man cumming in me is such a turn on!

[Bbbttmslt49]

412 328 2755, Pittsburgh here.  Cock and cum addict. Pls b over 50.  Text me!

[Hard8Stud]

I have always preferred bareback; but, I don't fuck just anyone, which is why I'm still DDF. But, that's why I joined this site several years ago and another one a few years ago. I have made it clear for a long time that if anyone wants me to fuck them then I must fuck bareback and must cum deep in him that first time or I will not fuck him. After that, then we can decide each time; but, by then, they almost always just want more of my bare cock--after all, it's a true 8" long (topside), just over 2" thick, and fairly straight, so they really enjoy how I stretch them open more than average and fill them up with my cock while fucking them good & deep. When I fuck them bareback and unload deep in them at least that first time, then they know they've really been fucked.  There have been a few who just wouldn't agree to it, but most decide they'd rather take my cock bare than not at all.  Several years ago, I met a 30-year-old who was 25 years younger than me (he was average built, I had a swimmer's build); I had to pick him up and we had a couple unnecessary interruptions, but we played for a total of 4 hours.  When we met, he insisted that I use a Magnum, so I did since I'd already brought him back. After playing 1½ hours, he begged me to remove it while he was riding my cock; less than half an hour later, I made him unexpectedly cum hands-free--one of 4 guys I did that to that summer. After resting 10-15 minutes, he wanted me to fuck him bareback more. After playing more than 3½ hours, we went outside to my lit driveway at 4AM where I fucked him over the hood of my car (we saw our reflections in the house's window) until I unloaded deep in him.  The few other times I heard from him after that, he said he wanted me to fuck him bareback again.

A few years before that when I hadn't been back in Dallas very long, I met a guy in Mesquite; there used to be Trojan XLs, but I hadn't been able to bring any with me from Denton. At the library, I decided to check into a gay connection Website (probably the most popular at the time but hardly used now under new ownership that closed off too much access to basic members) and got in a chat room where this guy begged me to meet him.  Coming straight from downtown and not intending to meet anyone right away, I had no condoms with me. We met three times:  The first 2 times, I fucked him for almost a solid hour, but the regular condoms he gave me (being married but separated, he was taking no chances even with my assurances) were too snug for my cock, so I broke them after fucking him for half an hour!  (The 3rd time, I was tired & hadn't had time to eat, so he fed me and then I left. We almost met a few more times before his wife returned, after which it took quite awhile to get replies.)

Dallas used to have a monthly come-and-go group party; by the time I was first invited, one of the two regular co-hosts (besides the main host and 2 then 3 part-time hosts) was from Houston; those on the e-mail list knew about when each month's party would be, so it got where guys came from all over the North Texas and even just across the Oklahoma border--usually a total of at least 100 guys would attend either or both nights.  (The monthly party that took its place is much smaller.)  Twice, a guy saw me undressing right after I arrived and started sucking my cock before I was ready.  Regular-sized condoms were always well-supplied, and I once contributed a 36-count box of Magnums. But, with one exception, no-one ever asked me to wrap my cock, especially not the main host when I fucked him.  (The exception was when I found myself part of an impromptu 7-on-1 gangbang of a tall & very hot 20-year-old; we rotated until all of us eventually overheated.)

Once you've swum totally nude in daytime in a lake, you'll want to never wear a swimsuit again.  Once you've fucked outdoors, especially in daylight and especially in full sunlight, you'll prefer fucking outdoors from then on.  And, once you've fucked or been fucked bareback, you'll know why fucking bareback whenever possible is always best!

[Guest barehole4use]

Well said from a true pure top fucker, awesome !

[Guest bottmpipebear]

I guess I'm very lucky.  I definitely don't try to get pozzed, so I'm selective, but I also hate condoms.  It's kind of a funny thing.  I'm 55, so the first time I got fucked at 15 by my best friend, neither of us even gave condoms a thought.  He'd just dip the end of his very thick 7" cut cock into a jar of vaseline  and go in.  He and I fucked several times a week for a couple years after school in his room, or my room, or out in the woods behind my house.  He didn't know, but I also played with two other of our friends, all of us the same age, all of us lived on the same street.  Once we got into high school, my best friend started fucking girls and I guess he just chalked it up to "getting experience."  I've since found out he's a raging right-wing homophobe.  If I were an asshole, I could ruin him, but that's just not me.  I don't resent him loving his wife and kids and centering his life there.  Maybe a little resentment over his self-loathing that he can't internally celebrate what we had.  Be that as it may, another of our friends and I fucked several times a week for about four years, until I went off to college, and always a few times when I'd be home over the summer or winter breaks.  The two of us never ever used a condom, even once we were fucking while he was engaged.  He knew he liked men, and I think if if were now, he would have never married his fiance (they divorced).  Once my best friend's younger brother was 18, he and I played a few times, and he wanted to use condoms.  Having never done that, it was kind of exciting.  He was large enough that they stayed taut.  The last time he fucked me, before he weirded out that he couldn't fuck a guy anymore, when he pulled out after he loaded the condom, I started to get up, but he told me to wait and then he pulled the condom out of my hole.  I guess his load lubed him up enough that when he pulled out, he pulled out of the condom and it stayed in place.

I didn't get fucked for over six years until I was in grad school and kicked the fucking closet door off the hinges.  A grad school colleague of mine took me to a gay bar for the first time, knowing I was struggling to figure out how to come out.  First a couple piano bars, then to a couple regular bars, after which I started going to them on my own.  At that point, I was very careful and always used condoms, but I hated them because they'd always wrinkle up and it was like being fucked with sandpaper.  Few guys loaded the condoms inside me, mostly probably because by the time they were ready to cum, my ass was so irritated by the condoms I had them pull out.  Then I met this latino guy at one of the seedy bars I loved most, and within 30 seconds of meeting sitting on the bar stools, his tongue was deep in my mouth.  We went to the bathroom, which, thankfully, had a lock on the door since there was a toilet and a urinal with no dividers or anything, so it was "intended" to be used by one at a time.  Within a minute, he was up my ass, and neither of us had asked about using condoms.  It just felt so good there's no way I could have told him to pull out and wrap up -- had I wanted to, which I didn't.  It's been 28 years since then and yes, I've been fucked a few times with condoms, but probably in that time, fewer than 20-25 times.  No matter how big they've been, no matter how tightly the condom fits before they go up me, they always loosen and wrinkle up.  I'll admit it -- I love getting fucked. 

I stopped counting years ago how many men had fucked me.  I stopped counting somewhere around 200, when I could still remember each one of them and where we'd done it.  I only know that it is now hundreds and hundreds of men who have fucked my ass, and while there have been a few who hurt like hell because they were so big, there's never been one I had stop because I couldn't take it.  There was one - 12" (yes, really) and as big as a Foster's can who stopped because he said I was just too tight and it didn't feel good to him.  I should note that I fucking LOVED his cock in me!  I've probably only had a handful of men who pulled out and came on my ass, back or chest.  There was one at a bathhouse who pulled out, turned me around, pushed me down to my knees and shot all over my face.  He had better aim than any facial I've ever seen in porn, hitting my face with every single shot, covering my face.  It was amazing, and if I'm not going to take the load in my ass, that's where I want it.  Alas, I've been with few men have that kind of strength or aim.  I have, a couple times, been at a bookstore and had a guy cum on my face, and I was feeling just slutty and "I don't give a fuck who sees me" enough that after they left the room, I walked from the room to the bathroom with his cum on my face, passing by men on my way to wipe my face off.

I most recently tested in December, still negative.  If I could afford it, and if my insurance would cover it, I'd be on PREP, but I can't, it doesn't, so I'm not.  At 55, it's now harder to find tops, which of course is very frustrating, but when I do, I only bareback.  I love knowing he's leaving a part of himself inside me, and whenever I'm with a guy who can do it, I ask him to keep going and cum again.  I hooked up with a guy on Growlr a couple years ago who came over to my place and his thick, uncut 8" cock didn't come out of my ass until after he had shot his fourth load in me.  We changed positions some, but without his cock ever coming out of me. 

Some of my hottest memories?  There used to be a bar here that had lots of dark places where sex went on.  It was two floors, and the second floor had a deck, shielded from the street behind by trees.  I got loads in the open on that deck, in the dark  corner under the stairs down from the deck, in the open on the patio below the deck, in the bathrooms., Once, after that bar had begun it's decline, they had created a dance floor upstairs, but no one ever used it, and they had put a bootblack stand in the middle of the dance floor.  Pretty much right out in the open, and more than once I rode men who were sitting on the bootblack stand, and of course took their loads.  I don't think there was any dark corner of that bar where I didn't get fucked.

That bar was the source of three of my hottest memories.  The first was a theater lighting designer who had been hired for a touring theater production that was in town for a month.  We were talking and he indicated some interest in action, so I led him out onto the patio and went down on my knees in front of him.  He pulled it out and there was a PA.  Not a very large one, but it was the first time I'd ever seen one in person, much less had one in my mouth.  I sucked him off there, because he was too nervous to fuck there at the bar, but I went to his hotel room several times while he was in town and took that pierced cock up my ass, always taking his load.  The second time, I met this man there who had on a leather vest and hat, dark goatee and stache, went to my knees to suck him out under the stairs and there was another PA, this time a little thicker.  I think he said it was a 4 ga.  He wanted to fuck, but not there at the bar.  He drove a car carrier rig for the US government, delivering vehicles places they were being staged for use.  It was a sleeper cab, so I drove him back to his truck, parked in front of him and took that pierced cock up my ass in his sleeper.  He didn't ask if I wanted him to cum inside me, he knew I did and he shot hard.  Feeling that PA dragging across my prostate was unbelievable.  The third memory that stands out from that bar, was this really hot guy wearing a red wife beater with an incredibly hairy chest.  He just gave me a nod and we went to a dark corner upstairs inside and I went down on my knees in front of him.  He pulled out a nice, fat, cut 8" cock with a big PA, which he told me was a 0 ga.  I sucked him for a bit and then he asked if I wanted him to fuck me, which, duh, though I didn't say it that way.  I followed him back to his apartment, sucked him a little more and then he lay down on his bed on his back and told me to ride him so I was in control.  This is the single greatest sexual regret of my life.  I slid down on him and on the third or fourth stroke down on him, with absolutely no warning, I came...HARD.  I freaked out because I was so embarrassed having cum so fast, and I left not letting him finish.  I've carried regret over that for 20+ years, but that was also before I had a buddy who helped me overcome that "Oh shit, I came - get it out of me now" mindfuck.  Now, I've learned that I can either be still for about 30 seconds until the wave of pure lust washes over me and I'm ready for him to fuck me as hard and as long as he wants (or can), or more likely, I just tell him I'm cumming and to keep fucking me.

If you've read this far, thanks for reading and letting me share some of my memories.  I'm not getting it as often as I used to, sadly, but I'm no less a slut bottom than I ever was, and it will only be bareback.

[Guest barehole4use]

Great story man, thanks for sharing but maybe next time you can space it out a bit, it's very hard to read like this.

[Guest bottmpipebear]

Thanks for the feedback barehole4use.  I've spaced it out a little.  I certainly want it easy to read!

[alexis]

bareback only I have only the desire for raw cock in me now 

[Freshmanmeat]

The feeling of pulling off a condom makes me hard. Then when it is all wet and bare the guy usually gets super hard and excited. They rarely pull out cuz I’m begging to cum inside.  

[wvtony]

BB if course.  

[crown1081]

Bareback vers/bttm here. No condoms allowed. Especially when I'm taking dick. My fag-hole is for raw dick only.