Staying Neg as a Bttm

[Guest BreederPilot]

Hi everyone. I'm a neg versatile top. I've always had the fantasy of being a bb bottom for a group of guys and taking their loads in my ass. Problem is, I'm not a "bug-chaser" and don't really get the whole conversion deal. No offense to my poz guys out there but I'd just like to stay neg.

So my question is to all the neg bottoms (and tops for that matter) out there. How do you stay neg? Do you require your tops/bottoms prove their status? Is it just luck?

Any info would be a huge help. Thanks!

[Guest lkng4dk]

Hi everyone. I'm a neg versatile top. I've always had the fantasy of being a bb bottom for a group of guys and taking their loads in my ass. Problem is, I'm not a "bug-chaser" and don't really get the whole conversion deal. No offense to my poz guys out there but I'd just like to stay neg.

So my question is to all the neg bottoms (and tops for that matter) out there. How do you stay neg? Do you require your tops/bottoms prove their status? Is it just luck?

Any info would be a huge help. Thanks!

Think that fucking bare when you are neg is very risky...sorry. I don't think there is a way for you to bottom and be fucked bare. People may not know their status or flat out lie out about it. If you want to remain neg use a condom or have a partner that is tested and monogamous

[Guest youngsluthole4yrcum]

Yeah, u gotta deal with the risk. if u can't don't go raw. once you've stated taking loads you'll need more and more.

[Guest crypal]

If you are a bareback bottom with lots of partners you will become poz. No ifs, no buts, thats the way it is.

[Guest pozaz]

Dude, I am poz and all it took was one time of bottoming bareback that did it. If you bareback and are a bottom it will only just a matter of time. Guys lie about their status all the time. In my case, I will only bareback with other poz guys.

[Degsy]

Dude, I am poz and all it took was one time of bottoming bareback that did it. If you bareback and are a bottom it will only just a matter of time. Guys lie about their status all the time. In my case, I will only bareback with other poz guys.

The only other way is to see a couple of guys for aleast 6 months and then get tested. If they are negative and do not bare back with other guys, then you have a chance of staying healthy. Men what they are can not be trusted, so use a condom if you do not want to be positive.

[Guest curious_kid]

You cannot stay neg as a BB bottom, it's a fact you will get it sooner or later!

[Guest thad10021]

I get tested once a month , an i pray thati am still neg , an so far i have been lucky . I have some friends who are living Poz. an it's no fun . it's a fear we all live with .

[Guest topman74]

I get tested once a month , an i pray thati am still neg , an so far i have been lucky . I have some friends who are living Poz. an it's no fun . it's a fear we all live with .

As a teenager I was a safe sex junkie. Then I had bareback sex once and realized what I was missing. I also am fortunate to have stayed neg, but I know if I continue barebacking, even as a top, that an eventual conversion is likely.

Bottoming the risk is even greater. Even sero-sorting isn't reliable... too many people lie about their status, or simply don't know.

If you want to be a bareback bottom without risking sero-conversion... find a nice long term monogamous relationship. Get tested together after six months, and if you're both neg, and both faithful, bareback to your heart's content. But men lie. And while that's probably your safest bet outside of never barebacking, it's still not SAFE because most people cheat.

[Guest cumnmeraw]

Backbacking or fucking raw is risky, but so is life. For the guys that fuck raw and then test every month, what is the purpose of testing? If you test negative, why bareback again, or are you just anxious to test poz. To me, fucking raw is so natural and the feelings between the guys joined together is awesome. And feeling the seeds of life deep inside your gut is the best feelings.

Yes, raw sex between guys can be risky and most likely make you poz at some point, butt it is what you want out of life too. You make that decision everytime you fuck with a guy.

[Guest assforyoujim]

Lets be real honest.Fucking is risky.Condoms break or semen is leaked out. I make an attempt to size up my partner and see if I can trust him. If a guy looks dirty then I will not let him fuck me with or without a condom.

There are no guarentees. But if I trust a guy then having his bare dick in my ass and feeling him pump his seed deep in me is the greatest

[Guest thad10021]

Backbacking or fucking raw is risky, but so is life. For the guys that fuck raw and then test every month, what is the purpose of testing? If you test negative, why bareback again, or are you just anxious to test poz. To me, fucking raw is so natural and the feelings between the guys joined together is awesome. And feeling the seeds of life deep inside your gut is the best feelings.

Yes, raw sex between guys can be risky and most likely make you poz at some point, butt it is what you want out of life too. You make that decision everytime you fuck with a guy.

I test offen so i will know , an thous who i have had sex with will also know .I have seen what AIDS does to you an it's not pretty . You are right every time we fuck we take a chance , but we still take that chance .I started when i was young , now at 23 an seeing how it has change my life .The thrill is still there after 8 years , I just pray that a cure can be found for thous who are suffering

[Guest bottombear52]

Backbacking or fucking raw is risky, but so is life. For the guys that fuck raw and then test every month, what is the purpose of testing? If you test negative, why bareback again, or are you just anxious to test poz. To me, fucking raw is so natural and the feelings between the guys joined together is awesome. And feeling the seeds of life deep inside your gut is the best feelings.

Yes, raw sex between guys can be risky and most likely make you poz at some point, butt it is what you want out of life too. You make that decision everytime you fuck with a guy.

bottombear52, Ap 17 2009

As a bottom I know what the risks are but prepared to take them. The feeling of guys cum inside me excites me intensely. However, there are times when I feel that I am taking too much of a risk with some of the men that have fucked me.

Last tested came up neg, but still need the ambrosia inside me. Can't stop and to be honest don't want to. Yes we take risks but we take them everyday, walking across the road, flying, driving and etc.

Still it is up to the individual.

[Guest youngsluthole4yrcum]

A BB bttm is going to become poz if he lives a full sex life. Fear of becoming poz can destroy your sex life and is irrational because you are going to be pozzed anyway. Find your own way to overcome that fear.

I can understand why some chasers just want to get pozzed so they can live without inhibition.

[Guest Craigsw]

Well, actually a person could have bareback sex for his entire life an not get positive. It depends on a lot of factors including of course the status of the people he has bareback sex with. If you or I had a group of five or six people with whom we have bb, and all only sleep with each other and all are negative than there is no risk unless one has sex with someone who is infected. I know I'm only stating the obvious, but it's not inevitable that a bare backer will become infected. Now, that depends a lot on where one lives, I suppose. The prevalence rate where I live is so high that I think most of the regular bareback guys are infected. If there is an 18 in 200 incidence rate and you have bareback sex with infected partners frequently, you can expect to become infected. But, if you are in a place with a very low prevalence rate and you are somewhat cautious about the guys you are with you could avoid infection for a very long time, or maybe forever. I'm shocked at my good fortune so far.

My ex bf was HIV positive, and one guy I meet regularly is also HIV positive. But, I always had condom sex with them...their demand and one that I almost always agreed with (but you know how it is when that fever hits and you don't care).

[Guest death76]

Lets be real honest.Fucking is risky.Condoms break or semen is leaked out. I make an attempt to size up my partner and see if I can trust him. If a guy looks dirty then I will not let him fuck me with or without a condom.

There are no guarentees. But if I trust a guy then having his bare dick in my ass and feeling him pump his seed deep in me is the greatest

As if someone could "look postivie" by being dirty or not... Fucking might be risky, but not using a condom is practicly asking for aids.

[Guest death76]

A BB bttm is going to become poz if he lives a full sex life. Fear of becoming poz can destroy your sex life and is irrational because you are going to be pozzed anyway. Find your own way to overcome that fear.

I can understand why some chasers just want to get pozzed so they can live without inhibition.

Let's put it another way, is your sex life the only aim of your life? If it is that's pretty sad... People can create all sorts of mental techniques to try and challenge that fear...

However the issue remains the same, bb sex = unsafe sex = highest risk of AIDS + STDs.

It is not about enjoying life at its fullest by agreeing to take risks, it's claming that your sex life is all that matters in your life and that you're ready to endanger yourself (and also others) for your pleasure's sake.

I'm sick of all those people trying to legitimize bareback sex by indirect means, life is risky blablabla, there's nothing like feeling cum inside of you blablabla. Be adults and deal with your lowlives. Either you want aids either you don't want it.

[Guest whatever445]

1) Limit the number of bareback partners, especially to people you know.

2) Get tested regularly, every three months minimum.

3) If you're really serious, make the person you wanna fuck/be fucked by get tested BEFORE you have sex with them.

4) Avoid using drugs where sex is a possibility.

5) Avoid even safe sex with known poz men. For my poz friends, please understand I'm not being mean here when I say this, but when you're dealing with a known risk and the object is to stay negative, having even SAFE sex with a poz person is a gamble. No safe sex (other than no sex at all) is 100% full-proof against an infection if it's already there.

6) Bareback with a stranger? Hell-to-the-no!

7) Group bareback? Odds are you don't know everyone in a group setting, and even less likely is knowing their status. So that's a no...

8) Monagomous relationship with honest communication? SURE!

9) Fuck buddy with known status? Not as trustable but depending on your relationship and communication with this friend/pal, could be a viable option if you're not looking for a serious relationship.

I have made a guy go to the health department/clinic/wherever and get tested before I would consider sex with him. Why? It's simple, and you know it already. People lie. Or don't know their status. I had a friend who had been having safe sex his whole life but had never been tested and just found out not too long ago that he is poz... he had no idea. He was 34 the first time he was tested.

Yes, another possibility is sero-sorting, poz with poz, neg with neg... but that's assuming that everyone knows their status. And just like there are people that want to convert to poz, there are people that want to stay negative, and there are poz men that don't want to feel that they are limited to only other poz men. There's so many factors to consider that it's mind-boggling sometimes, but if you're serious about staying negative, you gotta consider everything, not just one or two factors.

And hey, one of the easiest ways to clear this up is to ask for proof. Yes, I said it, proof. Show me your results from your last test. Before the clothes start coming off, before someone wastes their money on buying you drinks or you buying them drinks, ask their status. This may seem premature, but if a person is comfortable with their status, poz or neg, they won't mind talking about it. But here's something you definitely don't wanna do: Just as the guy is about to stuff his bare cock in your waiting hole the first time, ask "Is this safe?". I'm pretty sure Jesus would tell you what you want to hear if he were about to get laid...

SUMMARY:

Know your status.

Know his status. (and be sure about this, a simple 'whats your status' isn't enough)

Be smart.

Stay healthy.