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I didn't ask anyone to do everything for me. I only thought, since you're the only one in this discussion who already knew about it and that you imply that it is no longer sold where you found it, that you may know (to satisfy everyone else's curiosity that you've piqued) where it is sold now. If you don't, that's okay. Meanwhile, I'm not buying anything for now that is not essential.

Where are they sold now?

For me, it must always be bareback. I made a few exceptions 12 years ago--guys just seemed less willing to even meet coming out of the Recession, so I'd accommodate them just the once and to convince them I was for real. But one 30-year-old man that I played with for 4 hours when I was 54 begged me to remove the Magnum after an hour & a half; after fucking him over the hood of my car until I shot my load deep in him, I went back to insisting on always fucking bareback and always breeding deep that first time or he doesn't get to enjoy my fucking him.

Midtowne Spa-Dallas closed in, I think, May 2018; it originally planned to close a few months earlier but didn't apparently because of popular demand. (The chain's ownership had already closed 4 others, including the one in Austin, one of only two that had an outdoor, ground level where it could host venues like parties and guest appearances by porn stars (from what I could tell, attendees could not be nude because they were considered public events.) Despite efforts to keep it open under new ownership, reports were that it went downhill those last few months, and staff members (who would eventually be laid off) seemed mostly to care less & less. For some time before and after it closed, guys posted fond memories and reiterated their preference of it over Club Dallas. (The main host of Dallas 7½-year run of monthly group parties tired of hosting the parties and started going to Midtowne Spa-Dallas almost every Tuesday night; we made several attempts to meet there, but our schedules wouldn't mesh.) A month or so after it closed, I was alerted to a new cruise listing (posted by someone in Australia!) of a similarly named place (Dallas Midtowne Spa?) at the same address; it linked to a Website (midtownespadallas?) that was under construction and that soon made it clear that a very similar business was to open soon at the same address. Unfortunately, several months later, I found no trace of it; I hadn't saved the Web address to my browser or computer; so, I couldn't verify what had happened with the restart venture. Checking in Google Maps, including Street View, is inconclusive. I was without my automobile for much of 2019, had to move unexpectedly just over a year ago, the pandemic hit, and my car's been awaiting diagnosis of its current problem for 7 months; so, I have had no chance to see for sure what is there now. Cruise-listing comments were generally better for Midtowne Spa-Dallas than for Club Dallas while admitting that the latter had the better workout facility. Apparently in an effort to attract more who hadn't yet visited after Midtowne Spa-Dallas closed, The Clubs spent a lot of money to maintain and upgrade Club Dallas; that was drawing mixed reviews when it was shut down by pandemic-related restrictions. Its current restrictions (from which those 18-24 are partly exempt) have kept a lot of guys away since reopening. Club Dallas's current restrictions may not ease until May or June.

You may try finding exercises that work out your glutes--guys with good butt muscles can already make things interesting for someone else who's fucking them by clenching down on the top's cock. Also, those muscles just make your anus tighter. (The anus is two sphincters--muscles in a ring or circle, just like your eyes' irises--up to 2 inches apart. The outer one that everyone knows about is controlled by the central nervous system; the inner one is controlled by the autonomic nervous system, but you can learn to exert more control over it.) That's what matters when holding a load. The 5-year regular I've mentioned elsewhere had a good body, especially his shoulders & glutes, because of his job during the day; he told me more than once that he had made a habit of flexing & clenching his glutes & anus throughout the day. The result is he had one of the tightest asses I've ever fucked, even after 5 years of fucking him regularly, including many times for up to half an hour nonstop. Every time I started, I had to ease in & open him up with him consciously relaxing; more than once, I tried while he was asleep like he suggested, but that was always impossible because he would be clamped shut as tight as a vice. He's the only man whose ass, when he started getting tired, could actually squeeze down my cock. I mention all that because he was always able to hold my loads until long after I left. (Apparently one time what I unloaded compared with the pre-New-Year's-Eve time that I creampied his entire face; he said that sometime after I left that he thought he needed to use the restroom, but then my huge load (even for me) "just gushed out," which he mentioned for months.) He claimed that some of my loads he never let go at all. The other side of my answer is that guys with longer-than-average cocks can unload deeper in you when let them shove their cocks in all the way at orgasm. You made me realize that I not one man that I have fucked had that issue, at least immediately, probably because of the extra couple inches I go when I breed them. About 5 years ago, a 22-year-old (who asked me to be the one who broke him in and then to fuck him as a present for his 23rd birthday a couple months later) was living at the time with his parents and wasn't concerned either time about any leakage. (Mind you, though, he knew he was naturally tight and had "practiced" (his word) with a large dildo during the months before we could meet that first time.) It may just be that some men are just better able to hold loads; but, maybe this will help.

Maybe it's because of the size of my cock and just how very deep I must go just before shooting my loads; but, more guys than not have said they could feel me cumming in them. I've measured the amount, and my average load is about twice that of most men--and, the past few years, it's been more than that; so, the size of my loads is probably a factor, too, even, though I haven't shot hard for 20 or so years. Just from my own experience, it seems that guys who are slim or more fit and guys through their 20s have been more likely to tell me they could feel it. When talking with a man before meeting him, when he says he always feels loads shot inside him, that becomes a major reason for wanting to meet and fuck him. As far as behavior goes, some guys have said my cock gets slightly thicker after we've played awhile and kept my cock hard. It is unmistakable when I know I'm close to cumming because I do fuck harder, my cock get rock hard, and I simply shove my cock hard in as deep as possible at the point of orgasm, not to mention I'm usually loud then, too--so, men always know for certain when I'm cumming in them, whether they can feel it or not.

Guys in too many sites see the age number and make assumptions about being dried up and past it only because of some their own older relatives but without thinking it through. Jack LaLanne had an exercise program on TV in the 1960s, mostly for stay-at-home moms, and lived till age 96, exercising almost until then. Harry S Truman continued his pre-dawn walks throughout his presidency and until a fall at home a decade later--they were so brisk that reporters, not used to even being awake that early, could barely keep up with him; he lived till almost age 89 and was mentally sharp until the end. The intended long-term results of fitness programs in high school stuck with me, and my great aunt (who lived on a farm until age 80) was really into staying active and so lived to 100; but, it was reading Joe Weider's Muscle & Fitness that later motivated me to stay fit. The result is co-workers who know I just had a birthday but have no idea of my age. But, the reason for mentioning all that here is that members of BB, BB-R-T-S (which another BB member told me about), & S q u i r t are much better about being interested in men's true potential and experience. (But, for my car still awaiting repair, the pandemic, and having to move a year ago, I would've met several much younger guys by now.) The epitome of that is when I would arrive at a monthly group party, start to get undressed, twice had a nearby guy start sucking my cock before I could get completely naked, and no-one but no-one cared about my age. The one exception, as such, is a good one, though: At the party where I attended both nights, stayed late, and got to cum 4 times (the 1st & 3rd being the hottest), a 28-year-old who had been fucking near me pulled me aside to ask what I did. I told him steady regular exercise, always sleeping nude, sufficient rest & hydration beforehand, having Gatorade on hand, not getting overheated, paying attention to my body's signals, and pacing myself. The side note is that he went from being a vers top to being totally versatile by the time he left a few hours later. That 1st time I shot my load was still an hour away when I fucked a fit, fully tanned guy about age 30 who was so hot that I knew I could've fucked him for a solid hour; but, after half an hour nonstop, someone started fondling my ass while I was fucking, which set me over the edge--I still remember that young buck's look of satisfaction when he turned to face up. (The 2nd time was when the main host insisted on getting me off before I left after a nap; the 3rd time (the next night) was an intense scene where a muscle dude & I were among 3 taking turns fucking the main host while others watched, the muscle dude had me totally plowing the main host till I filled him deep, and another group of 4 fucked right next to us on the same bed; the 4th was after 3 guys had sucked on my cock then one of them & I jacked off right after sunrise.) So, meeting in person first has meant finding more younger guys to fuck; but, the sites I mentioned, including this one are good; OP was probably the best before the ownership cut off basic members' access several years ago, mostly because of its chat rooms, then-ability to see other members' profiles, and internal messaging. One guy about age 40 in another site was skeptical about me until he was extra horny one night at a cruisy city park; before the pandemic I fucked him 8 times and made him cum hands-free 6 of those times, the last time with 4 guys watching us in May 2019; after the 7th time, I then fucked a guy in his mid-20s, who had joined us, for half an hour, and I could be heard from the parking lot slamming his ass hard! In 2006 or 2007 in the same park, I met a guy who wasn't sure what to do with my cock, maybe because of its size; another younger, slimmer guy walked up from another direction removing his T-shirt, threw his T-shirt on the ground & ditched his shorts, got in front of my naked body, and calmly sucked me off while a 4th guy joined to watch; the first guy then said he had jacked off watching. So, if you're older & looking, especially if you're fit & the weather allows, don't wear a shirt when cruising; then, by the time a guy you've hooked up with gets curious about your age, he won't fucking care!

I've heard and read that can keep any man, especially those with E.D., hard for 3 1/2 hours nonstop without even trying--not going into the neurochemical reasons why. Healthy men's natural testosterone starts declining by about age 30; you start noticing it by age 40 because you're not willing or able to keep having 2 or 3 orgasms a day--men with children & stresses in their lives tend to give into the natural pull to slow down and not feel like exercising (however counterintuitive it seems, I always felt better when I could work out shortly after work, even if the feet I'd been standing on all day weren't up to running). For most men who don't remain physically active, testosterone levels usually start dropping dramatically in their early 60s; the usual trend is most men lose their sex drive by age 80. Intentional and continuous meaningful exercise, though--especially aerobic and weight-training--naturally causes testosterone levels to increase; for those of us who have thought about long-term health (inspired, in my case, by my mother's 3 aunts who lived into their 90s, one raking leaves 2 weeks before her 100th birthday), staying active (physically & sexually) does wonders. (I also learned in my late teens how to pace myself and last much longer because I really wanted to stay rock hard as long as possible.) Right after I turned 52 in 2007, a 28-year-old versatile top at a monthly group party pulled me aside at one point and wanted to know what I did to fuck nonstop like that for so long--I told him my all-natural reasons. Two months earlier, I fucked the main host for 45 minutes nonstop; about 15 minutes on, one of the 2 part-time hosts lay down & started watching us; after another 10-15 minutes, he said, "How do you do that?" I'm about to turn 65 and know that most people in their 60s look lots older than me. Yet, about 1 1/2 months ago, a 24-year-old whom I had met somewhat by chance during a thunderstorm several months ago, rather surprised me by asking if I wanted to fuck him; I said, "Yes, actually." But, he had caught me by surprise shortly after I returned from work; so, I was still tired with the stresses from that. We did play awhile, though, until I shot one of my oversized cum loads all over his chest. So, anyway, I have yet to use Viagra or Cialis, although I've thought it would be interesting to try a mild dose for a group party. I hope I don't need it myself for a long time yet, even after the major stresses I've been through the past year, which included moving on the coldest day of the year a year ago and my mother's medically unnecessary passing in February. A guy in his mid-40s has been trying lately to match his availability with mine so that he can suck me off at least a few times; it turns out we have so much in common that we may try starting 3-ways & more later. The attached pics are from only 3 years ago. (It's been mostly either impractical or impossible to take pics since then.)

Fucking a 5-year regular's deep and literally hot ass:

If I have to pick just one, then it has to be in early May 2002 at Queen's Point Park, one of a group of 3 parks on Lake Lewisville (north of Dallas, Tx.) that are accessed from the same entrance. After being introduced to the park and having several naked photos taken of me on May 19, 2001, I returned several times; it is an unofficially clothing-optional park, and it's easy to see from a distance any police on their way to make sure nothing is going on--with other priorities since 2008, they rarely if ever now do so. On 4 of my return visits, I fucked a different young man during the day. The 2nd & 3rd times, I was about to gather my stuff & leave--didn't need to dress until about to be visible from the parking lot, which is half a mile from the main part of the park on the lake shore--when a young man walked up and surprised me by asking me to fuck him, which I did with him holding on to a tree and sunlight glinting on my cock through the leaves. But, the 4th time, I arrived in the midafternoon of the first Sunday in May 2002; I remember well it was a sunny day and weather was perfect. After a lot of rain earlier in the year, I knew the lake level was still well above normal after having found on an earlier visit that the main part of the park was submerged. As soon as I got out of my car, a slim, fit, half-Asian young man, whom I had never seen before, walked right up to me and wanted to suck my cock right there by my car. But, there were people using the nearby miniature airplane field; so, I convinced him to wait and go with me. I was only wearing shorts & shoes, but I brought an extra beach towel with me. Knowing that fewer people would visit, I found a wide-open spot to the west of the trail where the sun was still shining over a big tree. We both stripped, and he immediately started sucking m my cock. After getting rock hard, I flipped him over and started fucking--the openness and sunlight, that shortly went behind the tree, feeling so good. I really believe that the most natural way to fuck when possible is outdoors during the day, preferably in full sunlight. I had a clear view of anyone who might get on the path; so, when I recognized a man I had seen from earlier visits, I knew I could keep fucking. Sure enough, the 3rd man walked right by us as we fucked and kept going past the tree to the shore. I was still fucking when he returned about 20 minutes later and stopped to watch. I heard something else nearby and realized he had ditched his T-shirt and dropped his shorts to jack his cock while watching me fucking the young man deep by then. I felt something on my back, instantly knew the 3rd guy's load was landing on my back, so that set me over the edge; I shot my load deep in the young man, and the 3rd man went on his way. He wanted to meet me again the next week; but, that was Mothers' Day, so we agreed to meet the week after--I made it, but he didn't, and I wasn't able to return regularly after that. But, I'll never forget fucking him in the wide open on a very nice day!

That would be SO much fun!! When restrictions relax enough, that's something all us exhibitionists reading and writing in this topic should consider pursuing.

My personal favorite position for long-time play is standing doggy-style--that way I use more of my body and can last a lot longer. It's also great, when the room is right, for watching myself in a mirror fuck another man. But, I do enjoy variety. It's so much fun to let him ride my cock as long as he wants or to get deep inside and have my hard cock simply keep him filled up--which very few had experience before. His legs up while we're facing each other is hot, too, because we can handle each other's bodies while I see him needing my cock more as I look in his eyes; when I'm rock hard, it's also how I get the deepest in him while we're fucking and can breed him the deepest. But, when I'm ready to cum, I'll often flip him over and plow him hard & deep until I cum in him balls-deep. In autumn 2019, after fucking a regular until making him cum hands-free, a 22-year-old who had joined us got on his back on the picnic table; for almost half an hour, I standing-doggy fucked that twink so hard that the first guy could, from his parked car, hear my body slapping loudly against the twink's ass until I bred him deep!

I met a man in his early 30s several years ago who was about 5'8", slim, & fit; but, he could deep-throat my cock (8 in. long topside, 2 in. thick (6 in. around)) better than anyone. He would tell me of a few guys with 10 to 11 inches who had never had good good blow jobs--he would start by swallowing his cock whole, which would drive him almost out of his mind and once almost made him cum right away. He really enjoyed starting by swallowing my cock whole, which was great! He enjoyed sucking cock so much--and was rightfully proud of his deep-throating skills--that I fucked him only a few times. He is so far the only guy whom I could aggressively skull-fuck; when we would end like that and I was ready to cum, I'd shove his head all the way down on my cock and shoot my load straight down his throat. It was fucking awesome, which we both enjoyed. The last time we met was for several hours, starting after midnight and ending well after sunrise; after other things and after sunrise in the living room, we enjoyed deep-throat 69, which is so fucking hot! At a group party in Dallas earlier, I kept connecting with a fit, shaved man in his 20s from Lawton, Oklahoma; nearly 4 hours later, we ended in a voracious deep-throat 69. When I knew we were both about to cum, I shoved his cock down my throat; he had just pulled off mine, so I shot my load on him. Being October, that had dislodged some post-nasal drainage; as I got up to spit, I saw him in an unexpected daze and my cum completely covering his chest! That, too, was unforgettably hot! We exchanged e-mail addresses, but I unfortunately soon lost it. (He was already on the then-monthly party's e-mail list, but he didn't make it again before they ended several months later.)

This is me while sunbathing in October 2013 in what is actually part of a public park but is rarely visited.

I've known since I was 13 that outdoor fun, especially in full sunlight, is always best whenever possible!

I'm so glad you suggested this! Very good idea! No breathing someone else's possibly virus-contaminated air--just the much-needed sharing of cock and cum! If you use such a drill to get it started and even cut the actual hole (like with a doorknob-hole-cutting attachment), you must be sure that no-one can hear the sound and that anyone is very unlikely to walk in while you're improving the partition--at least in the U.S.A., most owners don't want things done like that, especially without their permission. (Someone walking in may just want to use the facilities and report it.) But, if you can, that's the best way. When I was in college, I was among those who constantly made sure the stall partitions were adequately improved. The partitions were made from particle board; once the outer layer with paint was chipped off, it was easy over time for several of us to take turns digging it out and making it wider--after a small hole has been made, keys are good at digging out the compressed wood particles. I found (partly because of my own 2-inch thickness) that a glory hole needs to be at least 2½ in. (6.35 cm) in diameter so that most cocks can fit through easily. (One in a basement restroom, now long gone, was just a fraction under 2 in. and facing the urinals; I once pushed my cock through it while no-one was there, enjoying the snugness--when I got fully hard, though, I couldn't pull out. It would've been a lot of fun to be stuck there like that if someone had walked in, but no-one did.) I also drilled some peepholes so that either side could see better into adjacent stalls. The glory holes I helped make & maintain were in the 3 most cruisy restrooms in one building. (More private fun could be had on the top 2 floors. I once took a couple photos of my cock sticking through one I had just slightly enlarged, but I think I had to get rid of them before moving.) Making the hole even really helps; also, over time, the particle board holes got smoother anyway. One on the third floor had to have been drilled; but, one guy with a 9-inch-long cock tried pushing it through and found it was too tight. After that, I tried to make every glory hole be 2½ to 3 inches (6.35 to 7.62 cm) in diameter. If you can make one big enough for some guys to also push through their balls, so much the better. Replacing some of those particle-board partitions with steel ones made drilling glory holes a lot more difficult; but, some guys still drilled peepholes so that at least understall and shared-stall action could happen. Unfortunately, a year or so before I moved away, the university remodeled those restrooms so that one couldn't hear someone entering and taking out one of the stalls, but leaving steel dividers in place--that's how I met a lean, smoothshaved 18-year-old for understall fun a few weeks before I moved (at age 48).

Having posted that much so far, you would do well to tell us the rest of the story as soon as you can.

I have not tried that yet, but it sounds like something definitely worth trying!

I can only assume you mean too hot to play outdoors. In a way, I can agree. There is a lakeside area in Dallas that has been successfully cruisy for probably at least 25 years--I know it was well-established before I moved back in mid-2003. Before the recession peaked in 2009, it could be very busy late in the evening, especially on Friday & Saturday nights. It hasn't been as busy on a regular basis since the recession; but, there have been some good nights. When there's a decent, steady breeze and the humidity is fairly low, it's OK when it's warmer--and it's mid-summer now here. One July night (I think in 2007), a tall, very athletic bottom remembered me from our failed attempt to fuck on a cold night the previous November; he knew of an open spot on a short, hidden path. He was hot enough to get me hard quickly, and the humidity that night provided partial lube. While I was fucking him, a third guy joined us to spitroast him for about 10 minutes. In the air made more still by the surrounding trees & shrubs, I fucked him for another 10-15 minutes until the heat & humidity proved too much for either of us. When I get overheated, I need to cool off & rehydrate before I can go at it again; but, there was no way for us to cool of then. We wanted to meet again later and pick up where we left off; but, we never did manage to be there at the same time again before the recession made guys focus more on lack of income. (In Megaphone--now Megamates for same-sex meetings--almost 60% of the guys in my Hot List dropped out between Nov. 2008 & April 2009.) That's just a prime example of what it can be like when the weather is just too warm and/or too humid. Sometimes in summer, guys wait till 10:30pm to start showing up but won't stay because it's still too warm. Probably the one time that was as close to being an exception was an athletic 28-year-old whom I met at his apartment in 2005 (I was almost 50). We had so much in common--and his videos were mostly of guys in 3-ways or outdoors--that we could not get enough of each other. When I fucked him good, it was for a solid hour non-stop, the only time I've fucked nonstop for more than 45 minutes without needing to cool off & rehydrate. We soaked his bed sheets with our sweat and kept fucking. But, then, more quickly than I expected, I got overheated--I should have kept my cold Gatorade within reach and probably should've asked the A/C be turned down first; neither of us had the time for me to be ready to finish, so we planned to meet again soon--but, like too many, we never managed to find a time again when we were both available. Even indoors, I need to be sure either the A/C is turned down or there's enough air movement or both.

A semi-regular fuckbuddy of mine found this site in early 2019 a month or two after Craigslist closed its personals section. He said it's not nearly as good as CL, but it is adequate. So, I'm glad you found it; and, thanks for bringing it to our attention!

I thoroughly enjoy shattering any preconceptions about how well older guys can fuck. Not surprisingly, I suppose, younger guys in some sites automatically write me off because of assuming I can only be just like their out-of-shape older relatives. But, when meeting in person, they don't care at all. I have more success in sites where I can attach a date to pics & vids taken of me in recent years or even very recently. Older guys who stay in-shape and especially athletic usually have sex drives almost as high as ever--which is why I generally prefer to play with guys 30 & under because of their naturally high sex drives. Mindful of how it feels when I fuck, I always want us both to enjoy the experience--probably a big part of being a versatile top. So, I've always since my late teens been improving; I absolutely love it when a young guy learns and is further turned on by my experience. Guys who never learned how to fuck good never thought enough about what they're doing. When i was 16-17, I enjoyed staying hard so much that I learned how to stay rock hard for up to 3 hours at a time before cumming about every 3 days (because of school work, didn't have time for more often). Since then, I've learned more about my body's responses so as to enjoy sex for longer periods of time--including rest, I had a 5-year regular with whom I first played 6½ hours, rarely played less than 2 hours, and sometimes played up to 9 hours; once early on when we met 3 times in 5 days, he kept me hard for almost the entire 4 hours that 2nd time. By pacing myself, I fucked the main host of a then-established monthly group party for 45 minutes nonstop--I turned 52 1½ months later; that 5-year former regular I often fucked long & hard at least half an hour nonstop--he'd say I'd "fucked him legless" because he could hardly walk when I would stop to rest up & cool off. I was 57 when he moved too far away to keep meeting. In 2005, I was 50 when I met a 28-year-old at his apartment; we had so much in common that I fucked him nonstop for an hour--we soaked the sheets with our sweat, but I got too overheated just before I would've have cum deep inside him. I have a regular of sorts whom I haven't been able to meet since last year; but, he's about 12 years younger and really enjoys my experience and how long I can play. I met a 30-year through a phone-"dating" service. He was unusually experienced for his age, which told me he had been fucking & getting fucked since at least 16; but, the experience I brought and surprised him with, really turned him on. Conversely, I have discovered partly through conversations, that teens are fucking more often and starting younger and tend to be more willing to fuck anyone male or female. So, while teens & twentysomethings tend to let the passion take over and are done too quickly, more and more have learned how to be good fuckers at a younger age. That reminds me, by the way, of a teenage fuckbuddy in about 1999-2003 with a very high sex drive even for his age: After cumming, he could stay rock hard and cum several more times, although not as much as the first time. Being on the high school track team, he would schedule 7 girls or women to fuck each of the nights of an out-of-town track meet; he had a few guys he played with, too, but he preferred me to the others. The 2nd night we met (he was 17), he shot 5 loads and made me cum more the 2nd time than the 1st because of photographing me (the film got too old for me to send off to get it developed). As a runner, he already had tremendous stamina. He & the weekend manager of a convenience store decided to "go fucking together"--the other guy was so blown away by how long my friend could fuck that he couldn't think straight for a week. He was also full of questions about sex and physical development. It doesn't take long to tell the difference between someone who's mostly talk (of any age, including those who exaggerate about cock size) and those of us who can make sex a lot more fun because of our experience and general health & fitness.

In my teens through about my mid-20s, I was very versatile--I mostly fucked and got sucked off, but I enjoyed having any kind of fun. Since my late 20s, I've been a versatile top--I enjoy doing lots more than total top--like 69, mutual j/o, double penetration, daisy chains,etc.--but I don't get fucked; the one exception is I do enjoy being in the middle of a sandwich (fucking while getting fucked). Even at group parties, there's never been a question; in fact, twice before I could get completely naked, someone started sucking my cock. Like I've said elsewhere, everyone I fuck must let me fuck them bareback and must let me cum deep inside them that first time or I cannot fuck them. Most guys I meet again, I fuck and almost always breed deep unless agreed differently ahead of time. When I do fuck, I absolutely refuse to pull out, even when they want to change their minds, until I breed them deep with one of my big loads; without exception, they were glad they took my cock & cum.

If we can find a way to meet, I'll be glad to!

When I fuck and breed a bottom deep, he knows I've taken ownership of his ass--that's why I require breeding anyone deep the first time I fuck him if I'm to fuck him at all. Then, If he doesn't want to contain my load, then I don't want to know about it if he hopes I'll fuck him again; he can do that after I leave. (Unable to because the load is extra large is different, because, as a bigcummer, I like knowing when my loads are lots more than my usual.) If at all possible (and it is because of how deep I almost always breed), try to never let any go. The idea of pulling out to shoot on the bottom's back or ass comes from porn--it's the only way viewers can see for sure that the top did indeed cum from fucking the bottom; I do not do that unless it's agreed on as part of later-on variety. But, I will not cheat either myself or who I am fucking: If I'm fucking you and you think of changing your mind, I cannot pull out until I have plowed you as long as I need to and have bred you as deep as possible; when we're done, you'll know I was right.