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Yeah, sorry, but BB isn't what it was; it would really help if the site were re-developed to be more functional and easy to use again. Shortly before BB was redesigned, another member who wanted to meet me told me he had also joined Bar eb ack Rea lti me Sex (aka B BR TS without the spaces). Because of its truly realtime nature, you can see when someone you're watching logs in and know immediately when you receive a message; so, unless you're a "contributing" member, it's not as easy to check messages without others wanting to contact you. Unlike other sites like OutPersonals, basic members have almost the same access as ever; "oinks" & pic-unlocks don't count against the rolling-24-hour limit of 35 messages--after steadily improving my visibility, I got slammed 3 different times with incoming messages and was informed by one of them the 1st 2 times that I had managed to become among the site's 25 most viewed profiles and so appeared on the home page. It has a chat room for paid members; but, when you have the messages available, that's usually quite sufficient. You do need to be a paid member to post a local party, but not for a Quick Connect ad. Like with everything else, though, members using to actually meet seems to still be tentative since people realize they still want to be extra certain they won't catch COVID-19 by meeting someone for the first time. The site itself turned off posting of parties for over a year; except for CumUnion (which I'm not all that keen on they're posting there since they have their own site and the admission charge must be prepaid), almost all the "parties" I've seen posted are only cumdump events posted by bottoms who seem to think that there are dozens of tops for every bottom. (My experience with a popular phone-"dating" service and at group parties is there is actually more of an equal number of tops & bottoms with lots of versatile bottoms, very versatile guys, and versatile tops like me in between.) So, since reopening that part of the Website, I have yet to see a member wanting to host a true group party. Until late 2007, basic members had enough access to OutPersonals to connect with other guys--in the Chat rooms, that's how I met the first guy I fucked after returning to Dallas and then was invited to a long-running monthly group party that ended in that form about a year later; Various began blocking access to too much, so OP is now hardly used at all. Squirt limits sending messaging for basic members to up to 5 per 24 hours and to only one chat session in 24 hours--but unlimited length of any given chat session. What it is based around is its cruise listings--for finding basic information on where to go, guys' comments on listed cruise locations, and alerts on when to stay away or be extra aware, I know of no site that's better. When they run a membership special, the Fan Club membership is worth it, especially with unlimited messaging & chat sessions, keeping messages for 6 months instead of 14 days, and seeing who's seen your profile. There are other sites; but, most of those I've found one needs to be a paid member to do more than create a profile and log in; 2 I joined 3 years ago really looked liked they'd be good until after I joined. For OP & FuckBook, you now must be a paid member just to even read incoming messages; FuckBook also nearly ruined itself by intentionally adding bots as fake profiles not to mention lots of girls only trying to get you to pay to watch them in a sexchat site, but I want to be contacted by a real person. It may take another year or so, but it should eventually become possible again to at least start the process online of message someone for adult fun. Megamates has not been the same since the Recession and layoffs of 2008-2010; so, when these Websites come back, it may take more effort to find ways to meet other men for fun. Bareback.com (BB) isn't what it was; given some attention in making it more user-friendly again, it can once again be a very good way to connect with other guys. Group parties, some large, used to be advertised mostly in New York, California, & Florida; just as more were being advertised elsewhere, the site got redesigned--I haven't seen a single party listed since. The Forums are something no other hook-up site I know of has, so they're a great way to discuss and share things with other men around the world. But, improving the Website itself would make it a lot easier to actually meet other guys. My advice is to stay with it, and don't give up too quickly; few newcomers to any site are noticed much at first. Do whatever it takes, when time & means allow, to improve what I call your visibility--the more messages, searches, and free winks & oinks, the more you'll gradually show up in search results. Increased visibility starts with belonging to two or more sites; the more you have time for, the better, especially when basic membership means more than just being able to log in. Meanwhile, as the pandemic subsides, guys will continue being less eager to meet others for the first time, probably at least into 2023. Since 2009, I've noticed that guys generally are significantly less willing to commit to meeting someone and are much less likely to have the common decency to tell someone they want to cancel (and instead stop replying to requests to finalize meeting). (Before the pandemic, typically ⅔ of guys who were successfully invited to B BR TS member parties would no-show without cancelling out instead, making it less likely they'd be invited again.) Word of mouth does help, too, as well as getting on the e-mail invitation list for group parties; when someone contacts you, reply when you can even if just to say "Thanks" or to send a free wink/oink unless you happen to get a lot of them at once. When I'm in any site enough, I start getting noticed by guys in unexpected parts of the U.S. and even a few other countries; you can, too, if you stay with it and learn how to "work" each site to your advantage.

I do have to mention that Bareback.com itself used to be a good way to meet guys for bareback fun until they redesigned the Website. Maybe the original site had gotten outdated; but, it was easier to use, quicker to respond, easier to access other members' profiles, easier to send and receive messages--by which I almost hooked up with someone right before a lot of things got in the way, and had a functional chat feature for paid members. Shortly before the current BB Website was introduced, another member told me he also belonged to B BR TS. I have belong to both ever since, but have been disappointed in how this site's current design has caused so many members to go inactive or leave. The Forums, though, are currently the best thing that BB has; so, I try to visit and post in them whenever I can.

That may have to do with local publicity and/or concerns. There is a city park here in Dallas that is best known for its softball fields but has an open field that is great for high-school track-and-field athletes to develop their stamina. There is also a private high school nearby; its American football team uses that as its practice field in the fall, and many of the guys are shirtless on warm days--one's 6-pack was well-defined enough to see from a distance. Families and softball leagues uses the softball diamonds & field frequently in the spring & summer.. By around 2000 (at least 3 years before I returned to live here), a big crackdown made the news because guys were getting too obvious and too lewd in and around the public restroom, even during the day. The police parked in the parking lot almost all day long and until midnight for several years afterward; also, the city built a playground right next to the restroom--ostensibly to keep the activity away, but children didn't play there because of being so close to the natural odors. (The few times I had to use it, I had to take a deep breath to avoid the stench from the city not cleaning it like most.) About 7 years ago, when the police rarely visited anymore, the city replaced the restroom with a newer & cleaner one, not quite as close to the playground. It was never convenient for me to try it out, but (according to Squirt cruise-listing posts), there is an unlit, hidden-from-view area in the "back" of the park where guys meet at night--and, the parked cars there in the evening even after the softball-diamond lights turned off seemed to confirm it. It does not have its own cruise listing (probably for the same reason as the one you mentioned), but it does get referred to sometimes in the listing for a nearby park, well-known since at least the 1950s but not visited much after dark (and its location lets one see approaching cars well in advance). That happens to be where I had a totally impromptu 6-way after a thunderstorm; it started with me and a totally uninhibited, 19-year-old Mexican and culminated in 3 of us joining 3 others (1 of whom had left us) in a very public but hidden-at-night area. We knew we were the only people in the park. Another park nearby, one of the city's best-known, has an area that has been a great place for guys to meet--for at least 20 years, from what I can tell. The layout of that part and the way the road winds through and dead-ends in a circle make it ideal for knowing who is there and why they're there. With low traffic and/or knowing who everyone was, I and others have fucked in the wide open, sometimes with total abandon--including being in two spontaneous 5-ways, one totally naked. But, everyone who plays there knows to wait until all daytime visitors, especially picnickers, have left; so, funtime is mostly between sundown and midnight. I have played in other parks while never drawing undue attention. There are at least 2 parks that are apparently very popular at night; one closer to downtown I have been asked several times to visit but have yet to be able to. But, from what guys post, it's still not only very cruisy but a great place to play outdoors. In a more natural, undeveloped park, I twice fucked a guy in his early 20s--the 2nd time was his idea for me to fuck him as a birthday present, and he chose what would have been a very public space on a day that didn't threaten rain. So, it probably depends on the location and the local situation.

I joined MachoBB based on an earlier suggestion; but, I have found it not to be very easy to use, even from a smartphone. So, for now at least, it's on the back burner (so to speak) with several others.

I have not had that problem with Squirt at all; but, I have seen some guys, apparently bi, who post pics & vids of wives & g/f's—I don't know for sure, but that implies to me that the wives & g/f's know those guys are bi and may like sometimes joining in. For an all-male site for cruising and hooking up, it does seem odd that "straight" would be an orientation option because straight means you're only interested in sex with women. If guys have not yet actually played with guys but are interested, then they're at least bi-curious. About 4 years ago, I was taking a post-workout shower at the fitness center closest to work and was able to start shaving when a somewhat overweight but energetic blond Squirt member suddenly asked, "Are you 'hard8stud'?"; we shortly played awhile but didn't dare get caught fucking in the shower common area. I consistently check out new profiles that seem to fit the kind of guys I prefer meeting; the more I'm logged in, the more guys have checked out my profile over the past 7 days. This past week it has been interesting to see that 6 different guys in Colorado have checked me out; an educated guess is that's because a 26-year-old whom I was about to meet last November had to move before Christmas to be with family in Colorado where he has contacted me and wants to stay in touch till we do finally meet--his occasionally checked out my profile may be making it visible to guys living in Colorado. There is another guy whom I would have met tonight if I hadn't been asked to work today. The central part of Squirt is the cruise listings, which is how I learned of places I didn't know of before where guys cruise, meet, and sometimes play. Long before I became a "Fan Club member" of Squirt, it and B BR TS had become the primary sites I visit with a realistic hope of meeting other guys for adult fun.

Sounds more like it has to do with how much control you have over the situation. If you're in a sling, you're all but helpless. Maybe it's because my cock is thicker than average; but, those I fucked have always been able to tell the difference, and I sure as fuck can! OutPersonals used to have very popular chat rooms before its current owner Various cut off too many things to basic members, eventually including even being able to read incoming messages; but, in 2004, I hadn't been back in Dallas very long when someone in a nearby suburb, separated from his wife, desperately wanted me to fuck him. I went straight from downtown to his house; but, he (mostly because of the wife he wanted to get back with and eventually did) refused to let me fuck him bareback but still really wanted me to when he saw what I have. As almost always, I didn't have any Magnums with me; so, I had to use one of his regular-sized ones. After plowing him for half an hour nonstop, I knew immediately when I broke it. I thought by then he'd let me continue, but he didn't. I fucked him about 15 minutes more, but the regular size proved to be too tight. (I brought Magnums the next 2 times. He told me his wife wanted him back; I only heard from him once more after that.) Another was a lean 30-year-old I met through Megaphone (now Megamates for same-sex meetings). I picked him up and brought him back around midnight; only then did he insist on a Magnum. But, after playing for 1½ hours and while I was fucking him, he begged me to remove it! Half an hour later, I made him cum hands-free just by fucking him--one of 4 that summer whom I did that to. After a rest, I fucked him some more, ending with half an hour over the hood of my car in the driveway until I unloaded deep in him just after 4 AM. When I first met who became a 5-year regular, he had never been fucked bareback before. I told him before we met that I don't carry condoms with me and had to fuck him bareback if at all; but, he was intrigued enough to want to meet anyway. After I was the first to fill him up with my cock and the first to give it at least as long as he wanted to take it (I planned to play for 2 hours max that late night but went 6½ hours), he never considered anything but bareback with me. A now-3-year semi-regular had never been fucked bareback before we met; but, I have always fucked him bareback and have almost always ended with breeding him deep.

Well, it's too bad LatBearRey was a guest who didn't log back in. It would have been nice for someone to answer questions and for others to have offered comments and pointers.

Great motion-GIF! Reminds me once again why enjoy the sexual energy of younger men, especially 18-29! When I first got message-retrieval in Megaphone (a metropolitan-specfic phone "dating" system, now Megamates for same-sex meetings) over Labor Day weekend (Sept. 1-4) 2007, I was so overwhelmed by responses and spent so much time retrieving messages that I only got to play twice instead of the planned 4 times (I still have the list to prove it). From then on, I always asked for 30 & under to call when I had message-retrieval and no older than 35 when I didn't. I turned 52 almost two months later; but, I had kept up my physical & sexual health & endurance; 2 months later, a 28-year-old pulled me aside during a monthly all-male, group-sex party and wanted to know my secret was for having more stamina than he did. (That's the same party where I got to cum 4 times over the 2 days, the 1st & 3rd times being very hot; the 3rd time being when I knew I could fuck a fit, fully tanned 30-year-old for at least an hour nonstop, but someone started fondling my ass after half an hour, which soon made me cum deep inside him--I still remember the smile of satisfaction on his face when he turned up right after I pulled out.) After playing off & on for about 7 hours at the party in mid-September, I fucked the main host for 45 minutes nonstop; sometime after starting, one of the part-time hosts (about age 29) lay down & watched for about 20 minutes before asking, "How do you do that?"; I slowed down but didn't stop fucking to answer him. (I later shot my load in the main host 8½ hours after arriving; he insisted I stay, so I rested an hour before leaving. At those parties, I usually connected with guys in their 20s & 30s. At the October party, I was one of the 7 who took turns fucking a tall, lean, very horny 20-year-old bottom in an impromptu gang-bang; because he was light, I held him still to keep him from being literally fucked around the bed while we pounded him hard, sometimes feeding him my cock at the same time. By the 3rd time around, we all got overheated from fucking him so hard. Over the 4 hours I was there, I connected off & on with a lean guy in his mid-20s from southern Oklahoma; when the tranquilizer he'd taken to keep him from cumming to soon wore off, he & I had a very hot 69; when I knew we about to cum, I fully deep-throated his cock, making him cum hard and lose control; having some seasonal allergies, I went to the restroom to spit mostly drainage since I'd swallowed his load; when I returned, he was still totally dazed with his naturally smooth chest completely wet from my cum. Most of the guys I met through Megaphone (especially before the Recession) have been considerably younger, including a 30-year-old (when I was 53) who shot his load hands-free while I fucked him after 2 hours of play; after a brief period of recovery, he begged me to fuck him again; we ended by fucking half an hour outdoors over the hood of my car while watching ourselves in the house's window's reflection. A tight-built 33-year-old didn't have time for extended play; so, I fucked him a lot harder than he thought possible from anyone, much less someone 20 years older; after I unloaded in him, he asked "May I cum, sir?"; I said "yes," and he jacked off while my cock was still in him. After connecting through Megaphone, I talked with a young man who created a "box" shortly after turning 18; he was able to go stay with someone for over a month right after Christmas; for whatever reason, the financial opportunity didn't work out, so we chatted another month or so. By the time we met, he'd already made clear he was a versatile top like me; but, we really wanted to meet. I picked him up and went to the house of his grandmother where the electricity had been turned off. We had a good time, mostly mutual cockstroking, mutual cocksucking, & 69; I was on top of a 69 when I shot a much bigger load on his chest than he expected, almost complaining because of it running off onto the floor. (Ever since then, I've made a point of letting anyone I play with know I'm about to cum and to inform them beforehand that I usually cum a lot more than average but have no way of knowing for sure how much.) Unfortunately, like with so many others, we tried several times to meet again but never could manage it. In late 1996-2001, I worked at an Iranian-immigrant-family-owned convenience store in Denton, which was also the base for the city's taxi service. After the middle of 5 sons who hired me died suddenly in March 1996 and the father died several months later, I began wearing tank tops at work all year round except on the coldest of winter days; partly partly because of the drive-thru window and the grill where their ever-popular hamburger combo were cooked, it got very warm inside in summer, so I would wear only very-deep-cut tank tops--because of my usually tight body, great leg-muscle definition, and full-body tan, I looked great. In Nov. 1999, I was in very good shape for 46 and had already had teenagers comment on the sheen my healthy skin had when sunlit but which theirs had already lost; I rode my bicycle shirtless the 3 miles back to my apartment building and was about to carry my bike up those 15 steps when I was surprised & confused to hear a familiar voice call from the parking lot--it was the 17-year-old whom I thought I'd left on the other side of town; as member of the high-school track team, he had rather easily run behind me, carrying his T-shirt, the whole way. I had already figured out that he and his middle half-brother were unusually horny; beside my obvious fitness and having long explained that I did indeed shave my chest, the younger brother had somehow seen my big cock and told his older brother who had asked me a couple questions that I answered as factually & broadly as I could. A few minutes after entering my apartment, I thought he'd only gone to see my bedroom when he called me--and I saw that his cock was already 7" long topside (my first thought was, "Wow, he already has a man's cock!" He later told me that some of the women he was fucking were married to men who couldn't satisfy them with their average or smaller cocks.) Like me, he preferred remaining nude and enjoyed lots of sex. That first night, he shot 3 loads, staying hard the whole time, although the subsequent loads weren't nearly as much, while I shot one good load. I don't remember much about the 2nd time a couple nights later except that he shot 3 more loads. (He rarely left after shooting "only" 2 loads and never after only 1.) Two nights later, we left all the lights on; after demonstrating what good cocksucking really is, he eventually came 5 times, and he made me cum twice--a very rare time for me when my 2nd load was bigger than my first because he grabbed camera someone had left in a cab and photographed me (unfortunately, never managed to mail the roll to a specialized photo lab to get developed, or I would have made digital copies years ago). He often had questions about sex that I would answer; I made him enjoy sex even more by showing him that sexual enjoyment involves the whole body and especially the peripheral sexual area, not just the genitals. After seeing how good my big, shaved cock looks & feels, he started trimming; a year after we met, he asked me to use my shaver on him--a few months later, he realized the benefits and began shaving his cock regularly. More often than not, he showed up at my apartment having not brought a shirt when walking or biking to my place; even in midday, I would remain totally nude when letting him in; and, I always knew why he was there. He once brought a girlfriend for me to share with him; she never minded our nudity but wasn't willing to fuck in the place of a total stranger, so they just spent the night with me in my bed. After 3½ years, he was still in excellent shape and horny as ever; when I told him I was going to have to move at the first of June 2003, he made a point of visiting more often than he had been for several months. I have other examples, but they've been generally a lot more spread out than I have wanted. But, it's sufficient to say that guys who meet me before they know my age never care what my age is. In June 2020, I had left the door to the "patio" and to my current small apartment open to let the wind from a thunderstorm cool my apartment off quickly & naturally; but, because of the rain itself, the "patio" door wasn't open quite enough, so I left the door open longer to help the cooling off. (My apartment is beyond & under an outdoor stairwell, so it's actually quite out of the way and so is farther from weather.) Suddenly, a rain-soaked hispanic man about age 24 came in seeking shelter because he thought we were about to have a tornado; the storm eventually let up, and I learned that he had lived in the same complex in his late teens & early 20s, had worked nearby as a team leader, had been laid off recently because of the pandemic-related shutdowns, and had been homeless since losing his apartment 2 or 3 weeks before because of losing his job. He took a shower and asked if I had anything for him to wear. Wearing only shorts as usual after work, I told him I did not; when he asked to spend the night while his clothes dried out, I told him I always sleep nude to which he said he always did, too. He passed out on my bed, but slept on the floor when I went to bed; I had to wake him up before I left because he hadn't slept indoors in about a month. He never saw me wear a shirt of any kind until winter approached. He reappeared over a few a couple weeks later, then I didn't see him for almost 2 months. He became very comfortable around me; I don't remember exactly how much we had shared about each other, but I'll never forget when he was sitting on the other side of my bed, turned, and quietly asked, "Do you want to fuck me?" I told him, "Yes. In fact, I've wanted to since the night we met." Despite not eating right consistently, he gradually toned up and would check out his improvements in my bathroom mirror. He would borrow my nonsmart flip phone (the best I can afford now) and go in my restroom to watch his fetish porn; I later learned why he had certain paranoias about being seen, but I soon learned that most of his prior sexual experiences had been with females his age and didn't want anyone else to know about his bisexuality. But, every time he showed up, he was less & less inhibited with and around me, especially during the day when no-one can see in because of the dark, reflective "patio" window. I had stopped throwing anything on to let him in, and he would usually strip immediately; he once commented that he was surprised that he didn't mind at all remaining nude for hours on end in someone else's home, namely mine. I found that his fit nudity markedly improved my apartment's ambience. He got to where he'd either grab my crotch upon arrival or immediately want to strip off my low-rise work jeans so that he could suck my cock. He's actually a very good cocksucker; so, he had to have had some other experience with guys. Until late January, he never showed up after midnight and not too often. I have never enjoyed having anyone else sleep with me in my bed than him, partly because of the freedom to enjoy nudism as much as I do, partly because he was so relaxed when enjoying the physical closeness, partly because he's the only one I didn't mind at all rolling over me while we slept, partly because he craved being able to open up so I could fuck him (did once with lots of lube while I was on my back; but, he refused to use any lube one afternoon later when I really wanted to fuck him--to which he humorously demonstrated visually how thick I am and how tight he is); but, he also proved to be smarter and more observant than most people even close to his age. It was about then that he commented, "How can an old guy like you have such a big cock?" (If not for the extreme stresses of my parents' deaths a year apart, having to suddenly move including all their stuff, and everything being turned upside down when their automobile accident happened 7/31/2019, I would have easily maintained enough stamina to have already fucked him several times.) After not seeing him for a few weeks, he returned in mid-January; I didn't realize for awhile that he had recently been introduced to an addictive drug. He started showing up in the middle of the night and staying up too late for me to get enough sleep before work. When the record-cold winter storm hit in February, I was not about to tell him to leave; but, even then, he "had" to sometimes find a fix even when the temperature was -2°F. After the storm, he quickly got worse, and I couldn't get him to sleep, which left me more & more worn out. He's the only person I've ever told I genuinely wanted to have as a roommate; but, he would need to get clean & find a new job while I get another job so that we could share expenses in a place big enough for two adults--knowing him & myself well enough, we would need our own rooms but would almost always sleep nude together. (My own budget is currently tight, so I cannot support anyone else as well.) By March, he increasingly woke me up just to watch more porn on my computer while getting high. Despite his potential, intellect, great sense of humor, and having so much in common, he was by then disrupting my life too much; not knowing when he'd show up, I sometimes dreamed that he knocked on my door--the times I could check, no-one was there. Around midnight, March 20 into March 21, we had a lot sexual fun for about 45 minutes, mostly from him sucking my cock; I could've fucked him deep & for a long time a little after 1 a.m., but he refused lube and I couldn't get him to relax enough, so he decided he couldn't (yet) take my cock after 15 minutes. He showed up the evening of March 23, and we played off & on for 2 hours, but it wasn't much fun because he'd suck my cock, get high & let me rest, suck my cock some more, and get high again; he jacked off to online porn, which I don't mind at all in & of itself; after doing what I expected to do hours earlier, I didn't eat dinner till 1 a.m. March 25, I overslept; but he showed up to get high & watch porn while he knew I needed to get ready for work. On Sunday, March 28, I got delayed just enough that he knocked on my door just as I needed to leave; I tried to pretend I was already gone, but he wouldn't leave; finally, I bolted out, kept him from entering, and barely managed to catch the train in time not to be late to work. Flustered and needing to rush off, I said too briefly not what I meant to say. I'm almost certain he knocked on my door late some of the next several nights; but, I was too exhausted to find out for sure. I wish I had had time to write a note before getting my first Pfizer vaccine shot on May 5: By the time I returned, I was already getting fatigued; by 11:00pm, I was under the bedcovers, including a blanket, with a fever that probably peaked at 103°F; I slept most of 11:30-12:30, waking up to feel like someone had hit my left shoulder with a hammer. I think I heard distinctive knocking on my door around midnight; but, I was too out of it to get up & check until 3 a.m. when I turned off my computer and lights. I'm almost certain it was him. If he showed up 3 weeks later, I don't know because I was able that time to take extra days off for sleeping off the fatigue. So, if anyone has read my posts about him elsewhere, that sort of explains how much we enjoyed each others' company, personally and sexually, and why I haven't seen him in 3 months. Americans seem to be more age-difference conscious than people in the rest of the world. That's why younger & younger managers are promoted (to save corporate money because of their lack of experience) who in turn prefer only those their age & younger to be in the same work environment. I and some others in my current retail environment have managed to turn that approach on its head when those of us 40 & up, who were raised to actually apply ourselves to the work we're getting paid to do, have all but run circles around those who should have more energy to do so. A 10-year co-worker in her early 50s knows I'm older; but, a 3½-year co-worker about 23 has no idea I'm nearly 3 times his age, largely because I've approached my overall health with a long-term outlook; the result is my skin is still better than that of most men half my age, and I was in the best physical shape of my life only 4 years ago. In that vein, I've seen in Squirt that several men in their 50s who are very much out of shape have a much easier time of finding twinks to fuck in the U.K. that I and others have had here in the U.S. But, after observing over the past several years and my past 13 months' personal experience, I think there is at long last hope for us now-older men who still much prefer the sexual company & energy of men aged 18-30 who are finally less conditioned than they used to be believe that over 30 is "past it." I've always enjoyed shattering age-related preconceptions of physical & sexual ability; but, meeting this guy last year when he was about 24 and I was a far-more-fit-than-average 64 really gives me hope. If he and I can reconnect, I'll definitely post an update. (I took a few poorly lit pics of him; but, I dropped & damaged that phone the day my dad died on Feb. 20. I need to get that phone repaired to retrieve those pics and many others.)

Oh, wow, man! You know I've wanted to fuck you for a long time; but, your hot video of yourself really makes me want jfor us to find ways to shorten the distance between Ohio and North Texas so that I can fuck & breed you often, hopefully sometimes with others!

I hadn't heard that. Some things, especially regarding sex, are often myths that get passed along. I wouldn't be surprised, though, if there is some truth to this: Pineapples are high in water content, fructose (fruit sugar), and Vitamin C, and are otherwise good for you. Years ago, a family brought back a fresh pineapple from Hawaii and gave my grandmother some of it; and, she said it was so much better than the early-harvested ones in grocery stores. Too much, though, can make your system a bit too acidic. On the whole, eating healthy--including fruits & vegetables--can only help.

Make sure more & more men are educated: Fuck bareback only now and forever!! Condoms (in my case Magnum XLs) are only for birth control (if you're bi or straight) and for jacking off anywhere & anytime you want, especially when watching porn.

Just so you'll know: If I get to fuck you, it may take half an hour before it's possible to release my load because of how deep I'll breed you--at least that's what some regulars have told me how long it takes, and then it'll be more than what you're probably used to.

Guys, DallasHot1 is for real! The picture he used is of him. I have fucked him, and I can tell you for sure that he really is very fit and is really is one of the hottest bareback-only power bottoms you can possibly meet! After we met a few years ago through the other bareback hookup site, my work schedule changed, then my living situation changed, I had to move unexpectedly & in a rush almost 2 years ago, and my car has been awaiting repairs now for well over a year; but, when I'm lots more mobile again (and not just via DART), I would really enjoy fucking and breeding him deep again an infinite number of times! He belongs to at least 2 other sites and with the same username; when you tops, vers tops, & versatile guys take advantage of his availability, you will definitely be glad you did and you'll definitely want more. If you give him an exceptionally good ride, it is unforgettable when he turns to look and you see his tremendous, sexy smile of satisfaction!

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I left a comment on July 11 in the topic Bareback Forums Are Back, started by Bareback Michael on June 30 where he apologized for the problem. The next time I logged in to BB a few weeks later, I was able to go right to the forums. (It probably has something to do with the fact that non-BB members can comment in, and even join, only the forums.) It's worked ever since for me. Since he has not yet posted an update, you may try either leaving a reply of your own or contacting him directly.

I have seen mostly amateur videos of very horny guys who can do that; some shoot hard so regularly that they open their mouths when they're about to cum yet sometimes hit their own hair or eyes or shoot cumshots over their heads. I once shot an unusually large rope of cum after playing with a guy half my age at a public park—it had been several days since I had last cum, plenty of room to move around in the otherwise typical park restroom, stood totally naked in the corner by the trash can while he was about 3 feet away from me, after the 1st cumshot I somehow knew I could squeeze internally just right, then I shot a literal rope of cum to the front of the toilet 5 feet away. I was surprised, his mouth dropped wide open, and I was very glad he had been there to witness it. Videos of those instances always get lots of likes. Maybe it's their exhibitionist side, but it seems very athletic guys (who are naturally hornier and so cum more often) are more likely to cum like that or at least more likely to make videos of themselves for sharing. I eventually realized that my cum loads have always been a lot bigger than average; when I was 55, I met an 18-year-old (also vers top) who was astonished that anyone could cum so much that it started to run off his chest. But, by intentionally staying physically and sexually active, eating healthy, and always sleeping nude, my loads are still well above average at an age when most guys' load are supposedly decreasing. The exceptions are almost always when I allow myself to get dehydrated, especially when coupled with not taking time often enough to jack off. The main factor, though, must be genetic—guys with big balls tend to have a bigger prostate to match—while other factors are different for all of us; but, self care does help. Sometimes the situation itself just makes one so fucking horny that he generates more cum than usual. At one group party, I played off & on with a fit guy from out of state; I was 52 & he was about 28. He had taken a tranquilizer that worked too well at relaxing him so that he wouldn't cum too soon. After it wore off, we had a very hot 69; when I knew he & I were about to cum, I shoved his cock all the way down my throat; he lost control as he shot his load while I shot mine on him. Having drainage from seasonal allergies, I went to spit out his load and my drainage in the restroom; when I returned, I saw he was in a total daze, and my cum completely covered his chest—I knew I had had a very powerful orgasm, but that told me I had unleashed a huge load on him! At the end of the same year, I met the guy I had first met right after that party and who became a regular for 5 years. He knew I preferred cumming deep inside him; but, he often liked my cumming on his face—he would then jack off to seeing the large amount of my cum on his face. This time, I guess everything was just right because I completely covered his face with my cum, between double and triple my usual load (more than 1/8 cup but I had no way to measure it)! My additional suggestions for helping are supplements of saw palmetto, selenium, Vitamins E & C (more than the minimum and according to need but less than the max (700 IUs of Vit. E & 7 grams of Vit. C), sufficient hydration, and jacking off regularly enough for the prostate to generate more fluids. Playing (alone or with someone) a long time at a time seems to help, too—I once played with a one-year regular a lot longer than he planned on, and he shot a load almost double his usual right after I bred him deep.

I know a lot has happened in the past 6 years, especially since March 2020. But, how about an update? I take it, since you didn't post anything after the suggestions, that things must have gone better. My suggestion to add would be perhaps jacking off less often, at least when you expect to enjoy each other. Also, if either of you thinks of something you haven't done, at least in awhile, try it because variety helps; things like enjoying each others' bodies during 69 can also help get you mind away from depending on solo sex to climax. Sometimes, I wait too long before cumming because of enjoying the continued play and so must concentrate on getting hard again before completing fucking and cumming inside. The other side of that is your boyfriend can help by exercising in a way to strengthen his glutes and thereby tighten his ass. Just a little more first-hand experience to help—hopefully mostly others by now. If things did work out, please let us know so that others can learn from your first-hand experience.

I hate to suggest moving to another city just to improve your chances, bttmbreedme, of getting fucked and to find a better balance of tops, bottoms, and versatile guys. In another site, I have seen some bottoms who think that most guys are total tops, which is obviously also not the case but can discourage responses. I really don't think you're that way, though; so, I'm sorry (and surprised) to learn that almost all guys in San Antonio who want to play with other guys are bottoms. It can seem that way, too, here in Dallas because it seems a disproportionate number of bottoms often post "parties" (actually serial gang-bangs) and immediate availability. Since BB's redesigned Website was introduced several years ago, it's been a lot harder to exchange messages with and meet other horny guys; but, before the redesign, another member told me about the newer Ba reb ack Re alt ime Sex (B B R T S)—I belong to both and wish there were more bareback-only meeting sites. If things have changed for you, including moving, in the intervening 6 six years (especially since March 2020), let us know! Meanwhile, try other sites like Sq ui rt. o rg in addition to BB and stay with it.

Maybe that seemed off topic, but it's really tangential: When the man fucking you goes soft is not necessarily the indication that he just shot his load in you. I've run across quite a few guys who say they either sometimes or always actually feel a guy shooting his load in them—almost half said they sometimes felt the pulsing squirts of cum while about 15-20% said they always felt it. That seems to be especially true when guys who shoot so hard that their loads usually hit their faces when then jack off—I've seen a lot of amateur & professional videos of guys doing just that, and I once shot a 5-foot rope of cum myself. Until my cumshots weren't so hard, a lot of guys told me they were surprised that I was the first to make them feel anyone's cumshots while I was cumming in them; but, since I'm still a bigcummer, I still sometimes have guys admit they can feel that I just bred them with a big load.

It depends on the individual and situation how quickly he goes soft. If I get too warm while fucking (especially if the guy I'm fucking has the temperature set too high), I can lose it until I cool off. That's why I always bring at least a full quart of cold Gatorade with me. (It was even better at Dallas's former run of monthly group parties: The hosts always got a large hotel room—usually a two-story studio—with a kitchenette & refrigerator (where I'd leave my Gatorade) and had snacks & cold soft drinks available for when not playing.) The semi-regular I've fucked several times, mostly before the pandemic, tends to leave his thermostat up too high in winter; so, when I start getting overheated, he has to turn down the thermostat & turn on his ceiling fan. Fucking is a physical activity. So, it generally needs to be cooler just like in a fitness center. One big sort-of exception was when I met a guy several years ago in his apartment—I was 52, he was 25, & we were both in good shape; we already knew we had a lot in common, so he opened his door wearing only his briefs as soon as I got to the outdoor stairs, then we immediately stripped as soon he closed the door. It turned out we had a whole lot in common while he had lots of outdoor porn showing on his big-screen TV. Once we started fucking, I fucked him athletically and often very hard for a solid hour—his bedsheets were soaked with our sweat after 30 or 40 minutes, but we kept going. (I've fucked several guys 45 minutes nonstop, a former 5-year regular often for 30 minutes nonstop, and the former group-party main host once for 3½ hours with three 10-15-minutes breaks for cooling off & rehydrating (with sweat pooling on my back & running onto his dick before the 2nd break); but, that is so far the only time I was so horny that I fucked for an hour nonstop.) If I had had any idea that we would have that great a chemistry, I would've asked that he turn down the A/C because, after an hour of fucking, I got very overheated. We both really wanted me to unload a big load in him; but, after trying to rest up, starting to cool off, and drinking the rest of my Gatorade, I had gotten too hot, and neither of us had the time to wait long enough. We tried several times to meet again but couldn't quite get our schedules to match before I lost touch with him. I still wish there were a way for us to meet again. The other side of staying hard or not is more common: Guys typically lose their hard-ons after ejaculating; but, I've noticed that fitness, age, & general horniness are factors. From videos I've watched, young guys who are exceptionally fit can sometimes stay hard after cumming, keep fucking, and cum again—because they're so athletic, they have higher testosterone levels than most young men; I've also observed that men who are hung well above average almost always have higher sex drives than average—and because of the length that most women can't take are usually bi or gay. That fuckbuddy I had for 3½ years in Denton was 17 and on the high school track team when we first met—running uphill alongside me on my bike was easy for him; he had an almost insatiable sex drive and always stayed hard after cumming. Whether in town or out of town, he always lined up 7 girls to fuck for each of Fri. & Sat. nights before & after a track meet. That first night after running to follow me home on my bicycle, he shot 3 loads (only a lot the 1st time); the 3rd time a week later, he shot 5 loads and got me to cum twice, getting me so turned on that I shot a bigger load the 2nd time. Depending on his time and mine, he always shot at least 2 loads and usually 3. Men as they get older can get out of shape and suffer through stresses over time that interfere that cause E.D.—the gradual drop in testosterone in most men over age 60 really isn't E.D. So, some can lose their hard-on more quickly than others. When you can stay hard for awhile after cumming and who you've fucked hasn't cum yet, it's very enjoyable to keep your cock deep inside while he jacks off after you've bred him—providing you haven't done what's even more satisfying, which is fucking him until he cums hands-free and then breeding him deep!

I got curious last week about The Clubs and the current status of the Midtowne Spa chain. (The person who owned the franchises in Dallas, Houston, Austin (one of the chains 2 locations for big outdoor appearances by porn stars), and one other city should have sought to sell those franchises instead of summarily closing them just because he wanted to retire.) Before Midtowne Spa-Dallas's last months, guys still preferred it over Club Dallas; when it closed, comments by former patrons all said Midtowne Spa-Dallas had been better except for the workout facility. Because of a post last week by CumUnion elsewhere, I searched and found that the prominent Club 1035 in Wilmington, which Midtowne Spa acquired years ago to reach its peak of 8 locations, recently closed permanently as a result of pandemic-related shutdowns. Only two locations remain, the one in Denver and the one in Los Angeles. For "adult fun," Midtowne Spas requested using condoms but (from member reports) never actually required them, which is why the former main host of Dallas's monthly group parties told me he would go in the middle of every week; but, all of The Clubs usually require them. (Since Club Dallas is the only such club currently in Dallas and nearby Ft. Worth has no such club, CumUnion told me that they are currently unable to schedule events in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area.) The restrictions for almost all of The Clubs have eased a bit—they're all supposedly open again 24/7, and rooms & lockers are available to rent—but still no bags of any kind for things like clothes or favorite lube, only wallets & cell phones can be brought in, masks must be worn regardless of immunity (so no effective workouts without suffocating, and what's the point of trying to play), all visits are limited to 6 hours with no renewals, and those 18-24 still get in free (that is, at the expense of everyone else). So, not exactly inviting. Two guys I know say they have cancelled their long-term memberships and will not return to Club Dallas until restrictions are reasonable.

Yeah, hay fever is usually caused by seasonal allergies, mostly to airborne pollen; so, that's something else many must deal with. They used to knock my mother out of commission every spring for a few weeks. I've had had allergies, too, so I know what you mean. I was surprised Britain lifted restrictions, or at least decided to go through with it; that's usually been in response to declining cases. What seems to work best is consistently while not over-reacting. But, yes, it'll be around long-term, like other diseases worse & not as bad because of widespread immunity. When Europeans first came in contact with native Americans, those who happened to be carriers but were long-since immune to smallpox, unwittingly gave it to entire tribes that had never been exposed to it. In some cases, they thought imported evil spirits were causing that often-fatal new (to them) disease; so they sometimes killed all the European settlers to prevent further spread--ignorant, drastic, and too late because now they had it, too. My ancestors, in the understanding of the times, thought they were escaping a cholera pandemic, but ran headlong into it instead. If you wear a mask, N95 and surgical provide the best protection for those in the vicinity and best chance of some for the wearer. Masks (now made mostly in China, according to the labels) that most people have been wearing are the kind that hospitals offered or required (depending) when visiting patients so as not to infect them with something the visitor may be carrying but not be infected with. (When a patient has something communicable, visitors must put on a lot more PPE before entering the patient's room.) Masks with vents in them totally defeat the purpose of wearing a mask in the first place, that of trying to filter bacteria and viruses carried by the wearer; some places banned them last year because of that. KN95's are not the real think--they just look like it; the packaging for one brand I've seen says the smallest it filters out is dust, which is good for minimizing the effects of grass allergies while mowing a lawn or from the dense smog China had several years ago before the Olympic Games were held there. Bacteria have to be seen through a microscope; most if not all viruses must be seen using an electron microscope (and HIV is so tiny that it couldn't be seen directly for years); bacteria are smaller than most dust particles, and viruses are much smaller than bacterial; the analogy I've heard of T-shirt-material masks and scarves stopping viruses is akin to throwing dirt & gravel at a chain-link fence and expecting the fence to stop it. If we continue to take reasonable precautions for situations we're in, and we should come through this OK.

I didn't find the videos I remember first seeing of men obviously being bred deep; but, I did find more recently than I had in awhile (probably depends on the combination of title & tags added by those who post them). These show how most of us (at least in this topic) must end when fucking: http://www.xvideos.com/video22997767/cumming_inside http://www.xvideos.com/video23135331/buss_a_nut_n_dat_ass http://www.xvideos.com/video55107125/cum_inside http://www.xvideos.com/video55841019/breeding_asses_compilation I'm one of those who shoves my cock in all the way while I'm breeding, so documenting my cumming deep would mean taking a careful closeup of the base of my cock pulsing while cumming.

For dedicated barebackers like myself, condoms (in my case Magnum XLs) are only for jacking off to porn.

As for me: If anyone wants me to fuck, then it must be bare; the first time I fuck anyone, I cannot pull out until I breed him deep even if he wants to change his mind. The two best instances happened more than 20 years ago before I moved from Denton back to Dallas. There was a neighborhood (so called because it's smaller) park a quarter-mile from where I lived; on one side is a water tower on top of a small hill, steep enough that high-school track teams were sometimes brought to the park to build endurance by running up & down the hill. At the top when the park wasn't very busy, it was easy to sunbathe in a G-string swimsuit for a full-body tan; when the park was fairly slow, there was a shallow place on the hilltop that was ideal for sunbathing nude without other park-goers below knowing. On a couple very slow days, I got a blow job right there; on hot days when the park was empty, I could stand up and do just about anything while fully sunlit. The park at night, especially near the restroom, was usually not only cruisy but a fun place to play. But, people could also have fun the park was slow enough during the day--I once walked toward the men's room only to see the door wide open so that I could see a well-hung guy being ridden by his girlfriend! One afternoon, I was sunbathing and saw a slim, young man walk out of the restroom while a bicycle remained; about 20 minutes later, he returned, which intrigued me. As the day got late, I struck up a conversation with him; just as he decided he wanted to suck my cock outside the restroom (which had gotten too dark in the early evening), a drunk guy wandered up--once we realized that that guy wasn't going away, the 19-year-old agreed to go to my apartment nearby even though we both preferred outdoors. He had told me to start with that he didn't "take it up the rear"; but, after playing with my cock awhile, he surprised me by asking me to fuck him. I'm 5'11" tall and was about 155 lbs of lean, solid muscle; he was about 5'5", lean, and must've only weight 100 lbs.--given the time to play, I knew I could've easily stood while holding him to fuck him. I pushed in slowly, but I was surprised he was able to take it all--as slim as he was and as thick as my cock is, it looked like I was splitting him open! (If I'd expected to fuck him, I probably would've been ready to photograph that.) After awhile, he started to ask me to stop or at least not cum in him; but, his face suggested he was unexpectedly enjoying it. When I bent over and sucked his cock while I fucked him, he went into ecstasy and never asked again for me to pull out. Time-limited by needing to leave for work, I took only 20 more minutes to fuck him. When I got close, I plowed him hard, which he took better than I expected, until I had a powerful orgasm, shoved my cock in to the hilt, and unleashed a big load very deep inside him; while I was still hard, I then sucked him off. Before I pulled out, told me, "Thank you. I needed that." We ran into each other a few times after that but not when we both had time to play. I once offered him a temporary place to stay; but, despite my assurances otherwise, he felt he'd be obligated for me to fuck him at will--yes, I would have required him to remain nude since I live nude, and I know the sex would've been good, but I wasn't going to require sex from him. The other was an athletic married man who had gone too long without cock. He'd seen my big, shaved, semi-hard cock as I casually walked back nude (as always) from the gym shower. After seeing me the next time in the men's "wet" area (separate for men & women, so nudity was required), he joined me in the hot whirlpool and, after a few minutes (with a couple guys in the nearby shower) surprised me by asking if I'm bi; before I could reply, he explained he was married and was bi but hadn't had any cock in a long time, and that I looked like I might know what I was doing. I smiled, thanked him, and assured him he had guessed right; in fact, my expertise is breaking in first-timers. 4 or 5 days later when his wife was at work & his kids were at school, he took a day off, and I went to his house. He really enjoyed my cock more than he expected--helps that it's straight and thicker & longer than he expected. Sooner than I expected, he asked me to fuck him but with a Magnum; I told him that I'm unable to fuck anyone the first time unless its bare & to completion. Desperately wanting my cock, he relented; after at least 20 minutes of my fucking him nonstop, he started saying, "Please don't cum in me." I told him, "I have no choice, and you know it!" He started begging and bucking more & more like a bronco, trying to get me out of him; but, that only made me hold on to him and fuck him harder--and surprisingly made me last longer. "Please," he yelled, "I'm married!" I shouted back, "I cannot stop fucking you until I breed you deep, so fucking take it like a man!" I had to have fucked that bucking athlete 15-20 minutes, hard to know for sure; but, when I had to cum, I shoved my cock in so deep that he couldn't move--very powerful orgasm making me yell, "FUUUUUUUCK!!"--being a house, though, the neighbors couldn't have heard, but it felt like double my usual big load. A few seconds later while I was still deep inside him, he asked, "May I jack off, sir?" I said, "Yes," and shot his load about 5 minutes later; then, I pulled out. I fucked him 6 more times after that, always bareback & always breeding deep; once was when we ran into each other in a large hardware store, so we went to the restroom's last stall--as traffic came & went, he rode my cock briefly until I bent him over & bred him again; the last 3 times, we met at the park where I was able to fuck & breed him outdoors each time. A few months later, his job moved him out of state with a pay raise.