I'm still interested in everything in my BB Forums profile description; I've all of it multiple times except for triple penetration, which I've really wanted to do and often since watching video of 4 guys with obvious chemistry between them all. I really am a nudist who has lived nude as much as possible since my teens and have slept nude almost year-round since I was 6 or 7. I've been especially glad since COVID that so much free-access porn is available online to jack off to. If it were up to me and my sex drive, I'd be playing & fucking as often as I did until 2008. After 2011 and the Recession, I did play more but couldn't afford to as often as I was used to; I did manage, though, when I could to go by a long-popular cruising area of a city park but had less time to do so by 2018. I moved in 2019, and finances have been my primary concern ever since. So, I was very glad to have a then-fit, 6-foot-tall, 24-year-old hang out in my apartment on my days off; it was great having another nudist to spend quality time with. For awhile, he would spend the night in my bed, which we bed really enjoyed. He sucked my cock a lot, but he was too tight for me to fuck him more than twice with my big cock. But, he eventually got into bad habits he'd learned while in high school, got hooked on hard drugs, and became unpredictable; so, a couple years ago, I had to ban him from my apartment, especially since mgmt. was then looking for any excuse to evict & then collect accelerated rent while re-leasing. (That mgmt. team apparently got fired after residency went from 90-95% to about 25%; the current team is much more like what tenants expect.) Finances, lack of my own transportation, and one stressful situation after another (esp. the past year), including increasingly with work, leave me without the enough time to meet and fuck guys like I need to.
In a phone-"dating" system I belonged to mostly in 2007-2017, almost 60% of my connections let their profiles close in 2008-2009; after 2010, those remaining were lots less likely to commit to actually meeting. I noticed the same thing in the other main bareback meeting site both then and after COVID. Some guys move on--after all, we all get older, and things about our lives change, sometimes more with some than with others. It didn't help that maintaining the BB Forums Website was neglected enough that it started deleting--apparently automatically and semi-randomly--the profiles of some of the more active participants while becoming very difficult to access for almost 2 years. BB's current main Website has never been as accessible as the original version, which basically makes the Forums the only useful part. I did meet a few guys and was about to meet another (who had told me about also joining the other bareback site) when I was laid off as the Recession hit. So, after the past 4+ years of inflation in the U.S. and the resulting financial insecurity it has caused for many, my educated guess is the uncertain economic situation is a big reason why more men are not signing in to any of their online hook-up accounts like they used to. Since public transportation was reorganized in Jan. 2022, it's been a lot harder for me to visit the city park, now on the other side of town from where I live now, to see if guys still cruise and try to hook up there like they did before I moved and except in 2009-2010. I wonder if that's part of why there is now such an imbalance of bottoms seeking tops & vers tops to go to them.