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Hi toxicgun, I hope I can also learn a bit more of your experience with HIV and if it gave you difficulties to have sexual encounters. When I got sexually active with men, it was still the period of promoting condoms to prevent AIDS, they did not even use the term HIV, so that was what I did, I was top and fucked always with condom. After about 8 years I became a bottom, and also then, it was always with condom. After about 10 years being a bottom and having safe sex for 18 years, it got the feeling of condom fatigue, so I was having the most passionate sex and when the guy asked me if he could fuck me I said yes, but with condom, so he went for a condom, but when he opened it, put it on, all the horniness was gone, not only for me, also for the other guy. It was not a one-time occurrence, time after time, when I was ready to get fucked and the condom appeared, the horniness was already gone before the condom was put on. That was the moment I stopped enjoying sex, I avoided top guys because I did not want to be disappointed anymore in bed. Untill 1 year later, I went to a bath house just for having oral sex, but I've met a gorgeous guy and ended up in a cabin. We were French kissing and then I felt how he was feeling between my legs, to find out if I was fuckable...I did realize he wanted to fuck me, and I also realised there were no condoms in the cabin... I've opened the little brown bottle and sniffed a lot because I really wanted to experience this with him. And so we did, it was my first bare sex with a stranger and I felt living again. Sometimes I'm a bit jealous, not because men have HIV/are undetectable, but because they always enjoyed sex the intense and pure way. However, I guess this depends of the person individually and how they deal with it. I'm on PrEP for about 5 years now, so even bare sex is for me equal to safe sex, and I never ask about the status of my sex partner. Sorry for the long reply, but I hope it gives you also the insight that the feeling can change from fear to re-alive. Regards

i prefer bareback, but the top decides if he does bare or goes with the condom, sometimes i just want to get fucked. but i love the feeling of a guy cumming in me.

there are still more guys that uses condoms than i thought. since i do bare i only take lube with me in the sauna, but when i get in a cabine with a hot top they sometimes only want to fuck with condom, i didn't expect that

i love your idea about more glory holes, i love anonymous sex. hope they don't have to rub alcohol gel on their cock

unfortunately only 6 until now, from 6 different men.

the first time it happened was in a sex club, there were no private cabines so everything was public, i was still a top those days, but a guy with a big dick fucked me for the first time, everyone could see me, even my BF was watching how i got pounded by a stranger. the last it happened in a gay sauna, started with a guy in the mirror room, during the suck and fuck you can see other men watching and it makes me only more horny.

yes, when i have a day off i always look for cock, i want to get filled with cum then, that is my satisfaction, i don't need an orgasm myself, i just go to sauna to serve men.

i was thinking about doing that also when the gay sauna's open again. i hope it will be soon, however, the corona situation is getting worse again i've found one filled condom outdoor hanging on a branch, i took it and played with it, these days i would swallow it and lick it clean, in those days i was too afraid, but everything changes.

i've recently got a big load filled up my ass. i dated a guy who had a condom filled with frozen cum, there were about 20 loads in it before fucking me bare he pushed the frozen cum in my ass, it felt less cold then i thought, maybe because i was so hot ;-)

it is incredibly horny to feel a guy cumming in my ass, i just offer myself as a bottom to tops, helps them to get off their load, i don't need to cum after being filled with cum i'm just looking for the next top who wants to get rid of their load

Used to be a top, now i'm about 99% bottom. I already was a cumdump when i suck guys, but since about a half year i'm also a cumdump when i get fucked.

I was a top, fucked most of the times with condom, but with my previous boyfriend we started doing it bare pretty fast, he was a real cumdump, he also swallowed my cum. About 10 years ago there was a lot of attention in the media about prostate vibrators so i've bought one. Then i started letting guys fuck me from time to time. Since a few years i swallow cum, since about a half year i let guys fuck me bare, so now i've become the cumdump like my ex was. Now i'm about 99% bottom, and if i would top a guy it must be bare because a condom makes my stiff cock soft instantly.

I've stopped having sex when de lockdown started in March, so already 3 months without sex now, not that easy because i only discovered the great feeling of getting barebacked 6 months ago. The bath houses should reopen from 1st of July in Belgium, hopefully they include also the gay bath houses.

I like it when it tastes really like cum, sometimes the taste is so neutral that i wonder if they did cum LOL Sweet or salty, like them both, i like it less when it's too bitter, but i always swallow. The bigger the load the better.

Definitively keeping the babies in as long as possible, not al BB tops dump their babies in me, so it's a privilege receiving them.

Hi guys, Regularly I read in topics that some members are concerned about getting an STI (sexual transmitted infection or disease) when going bare. With the current COVID-19 crisis i have the impression that sex and dating has become less frequent than before, a reason can be that gay sauna's and sexclubs could be closed or people just play on safe. I've stopped with dating/sex and got me tested during this period, unfortunately i tested positive to an STI but it's already treated. Some STI's have a long incubation period or don't have obvious symptoms, so this could be an ideal opportunity to have it checked. Did you guys went for a test?

It's been for 3 months now that I've completely stopped having sex. I don't think there is a difference between stopping with bare sex and doing it suddenly with a rubbered dick, stop having sex is the safest thing to do, in my opinion. I don't jerk more or less, but i will be very horny when having sex again.

There are really straight men who just want to have their cock serviced, if they wanna suck or getting fucked then they are bisexual in my opinion. But it's not because a guy loves his women and have good sex with her that he can't have a desire to have sex with a guy, most men are, at some degree, bisexual. Some like to look at cocks, other like to feel or taste, and other want it all. So i don't have any problem servicing married cocks, it even makes me more horny and willingly to suck and swallow. Just before the COVID-19 crisis i was at a parking lot, a truck parked just after my car, i got out and i threw something in the bin and i shortly rubbed over my crotch and got back in my car. Then the trucker got out of his truck, i got out of my car and he didn't even say hello, he just asked 'do you suck?'. We both got into his truck, he pulled down his pants and laid himself on his bed, i started to suck his soft cock until he was rockhard. After a while he asked if he could cum in my mouth, so he did, i swallowed and licked his dick clean and left. So he just preferred a warm experienced mouth over his right (or left) hand, and he was damn right ;-p

I use poppers, i think i even can't have sex without them anymore. Inhaling it, especially from a new bottle, helps me to reach my target, what i wanna go for, without the poppers i wouldn't even dare. I prefer Blue Boy or Amsterdam. But i don't know if you can really call them 'brands', because for example you can find the same brand into different bottles, rectangular, round, small, bigger bottles, and they do smell different or have a smaller or bigger effect. So my experience is that they just pour their liquid in a bottle and put an existing name on it. I usually stay with the same supplier and vary within the brands he offers, but my favorites are Blue Boy and Amsterdam because they are heavy and make me very willingly ;-) And off course, it feels the best when i have sniffed a lot at the end when the cum is filling my mouth or ass.

I didn't have a lot of golden showers until now but i really love them, i especially like it when i'm on my knees and a guy is pissing on my chest, on my dick while i'm wanking, and with the help of the little brown bottle i even swallow. It happened to me about 2 years ago, i stopped at a small parking lot, i went into the bushes and waited, then a van stopped and a guy went into the bushes starting to pee, i got closer and saw his dick pissing a thick stream of warm gold, then i sniffed some poppers and got the courage to go to him, while he was peeing i took his soft cock into my mouth and drank his piss, swallowing everything, when he finished i gave him a blowjob until the end. When i got up and turned i saw another guy with his big dick out of his pants, craving for a suck, but i had to go to work ;-)

When dating a guy he needs to be my type because then i'm looking for making love with a guy, kissing included, i only kiss men i find really hot. At a gay sauna, no guys or loads are refused, i'm picky if it comes to kissing, but not about sucking dick or getting fucked or filled with cum. The only thing that can matter is the size of the cock, especially when i see big dicks i'm starting to hunt so i can satisfy him. When i just want to get fucked by everyone i'll offer myself in doggy style, cute guys can have me on my back so i can see their gorgeous face while fucking me. However i prefer a bare fuck, it's up to the top if he goes bare or protected with a condom, but if he goes for the condom then being cute and wellhung are a must.

I am definitively going to a gay sauna and suck as many cocks and swallow cum as possible in the sauna, steambath, videoroom. With the guys who wanna take me to the cabins i'll try to have a bare fuck and hopefully big loads of cum in my ass. In the next weeks i'm trying to contact a friend i've met just before the COVID-19 crisis, having a drink with him in a bar and afterwards suck him and swallow his cum. i've swallowed already twice from him and his cum taste great.

I'm rather new at barebacking, last year i was getting fucked by a friend with condom, but at the end we ended bare and he shot his load in me, i knew he was save. In december I've dated another guy of who i knew he was safe and he also filled me with his cum. But in the rest of december i went a lot to a gay sauna, ended up with guys in a cabin, not expecting to get fucked i did not have any condoms with me, i just enjoyed what happened and they fucked me bare but they also pulled back just before they shot their load, so it was still relatively safe. This made me realise how much more i was enjoying sex when it is bare. It also happened in the past that i was very horny with a guy but when he wanted to fuck me and i wanted it safe he took a condom and all horniness with him and me were gone. Sex is there to enjoy, you grow into it, if you can't enjoy it anymore you must indeed decide what you want. I think you are making the right choice about wanting your holes filled, because it feels really great. If you are worried about serious STI's, maybe you'd better try to decide what possibilities there are, for example is PrEP a possibility to prevent HIV? If not, maybe trying to find guys who you can trust who are HIV- , hepatitis C can also be a problem, all other STI's are easy to cure. Just do where you feel comfortable with and have no regrets after.

I always swallow, i like the feeling of the throbbing cock on my tongue and then feel the cum shooting, tasting the cum. It makes me more horny when the guy tries to pull back because they think they should not cum in my mouth, but i grab them by their ass or there balls so they know they really can do that and often they start moaning when shooting in my mouth. I find it always horny to do, however, it does not always taste that good, but i'm cum addicted.

At the moment we are already for about 3 months in lockdown, in all these months i didn't have any sex but my ass is craving for raw dick, especially because i only discovered how good bare feels since december. I didn't do any dates because I also want that anything goes back to normal as fast as possible, and every individual is equally responsible for that. I also questioned myself if swallowing cum or having a bare fuck would be risky without kissing, but i just did not take the risk. Recently I've discovered the lockdown was even a good thing for me because I discovered I had an STI, so I'm cured now and I'm glad i didn't gave it to anyone else. How did you hold on barehole4use?