BigBart1992

I never ask his status and I don’t offer to tell mine – though I am negative and if he asked me I would tell him. And as goodboygonebad mentions, I always assume he is HIV positive and I accept the risk. But I don’t fuck around with condoms and don’t buy them so I always proceed on the basis that he knows he’s going to get barebacked and bred – and there is no discussion about that. If he gets nervous or tries to get me to put on a condom (some blokes even bring them with them??) then he’s gone, kicked to the curb. Bart

I think practice and positioning are the solution. I like to have him lying on the bed on his back with his head hanging over the side. This straightens out his esophagus a bit and I can get my cock quite far down his throat.

Why can't more lads have this attitude? It would make life for tops much, much easier....

I don’t do drugs but I do like messing about with my boys’ asshole while I am fucking them. My favourite trick is mint flavoured toothpaste. When I have been fucking his hole for a while and he’s gaping wide, I like to squeeze a half tube of cold mint toothpaste deep into his rectum – and then continue fucking him. I have found the brand “Aquafresh Minty Gel” is the best and I always keep a tube in the back of the fridge so it is nice and cold. The cold, icy and minty paste is an intense shock to his anal cavity and the stinging discomfort begins almost immediately after I squirt it inside him. The minty smell of his ass is amazing as my cock pushes the toothpaste further up inside his guts, until I shoot my load inside him. Most lads love this but they all admit the pain can be intense – or rather a “pleasure / pain”. None have ever told me to stop so it must feel good! Bart

Personally, the act of fucking is not complete for me until I drop my load into the bloke’s arsehole. The whole business of “pulling out” before cumming is not for me – it just seems to me that if I am going to invest my time and effort in fucking some bloke’s arsehole for an hour or so, he is required to take my load. But I have 2 mates who are bareback tops and they often pull out before shooting; one I don’t exactly know why but he does but usually says something like he doesn’t want to get infected with anything. My other mate does it because he likes shooting on the bloke’s face. Bart

I'm not into interracial sex at all. White On White is fine for me.

This is my favourite position but I like lots of others, too. I tend to like positions where I don’t have to look at the bloke I am fucking and I am in control and he is willing to be controlled – hopefully there is no (^*&^*&(& involved, or indeed compromise. If I have real feelings for him or he’s a good mate, obviously sex is more “intimate”. I don’t do the condom-removal-stealth-bareback-breeding anymore, but I guess fucking in this position this is a FORM of stealthing – before entering his ass I never announce “I am now going to bareback you”. I think by that stage, it is assumed by both parties. Bart

As I am the top, for me the best position is ME fucking HIM on his tummy, lying flat on the floor or bed or whatever. His legs are together and his ankles crossed, bringing his legs and ass cheeks as close together as possible. His arms and hands are either at his sides or outstretched in front of him. I can effortlessly plunge into his asshole as deep as I want and with my full weight on him he can’t get away from the pain. I don’t have to look at his face, he can’t touch his cock, the “push up” action of my fucking him works my biceps. And more importantly: knowing he feels trapped, smothered, helpless and vulnerable… makes me feel very good indeed. Bart

I don’t think age should ever be a barrier to sex. If 2 people are attracted to each other and there is chemistry or “a connection”, why should it matter? 2 years ago I was seeing an older bloke who was 1 year older than twice my age and a year younger than my father – and I had never dated a bloke that much older than me before. But it was an amazing experience: he was a great guy, hot body and loved to get fucked. And I loved fucking him, even though at first it kept going around in my head that I could actually be fucking my own father. That is another experience for another day but the sex was really intense. But it also goes the other way. I am usually attracted to blokes my own age or younger but I have had quite a few incredible experiences with some much younger lads. I won’t say anymore on that unless you PM me - for obvious reasons but for me the feelings, control and sexual experience was incredible intense. Age should never be a barrier, it is far too limiting. Bart

I used to stealth a lot and always had condoms around but since I decided to bareback exclusively, I don't keep them to fuck. However, I really like jacking off with a condom on my dick. The slick, rubber feeling is great and when I shoot my load (I am known for hitting the ceiling on occasion) the condom keeps everything neat and tidy. Once I was fisting a bloke and tried to put a condom on my hand - but that was stupid and it broke. Bart

I suppose I can answer my own poll? I think I am between response 4 and 5 on this but I have selected the fifth, “very unimportant”, as this is my feeling about 90% of the time. I don’t like making eye contact with the bloke I am fucking, I don’t like seeing his face or facial expressions as I am pounding his ass. That probably makes me sound like a jerk but it is the truth. It may sound strange but when I am fucking, I get into a “zone” and I can only focus on my cock and his asshole and getting in it deep and blowing my load; his face is irrelevant. I guess I am crap at multitasking because there’s generally no room for romance for me when I’m fucking someone. However, If I am fucking a bloke that I am dating or a good friend or just someone who means a lot to me, I would say my response would be 4 – if we make eye contact that’s okay and sometimes it’s nice. I would probably never seek it out but if by chance we found ourselves gazing into each other’s eyes… I could do it, for a few seconds, anyway! Bart

How important to you is eye contact when bareback fucking, or getting fucked? Do you need to make that “connection” with your eyes in order to make fucking more fulfilling? Or would you rather not make eye contact and just focus all your attention on fucking or getting fucked? Let us know how important eye contact is to you, when bareback fucking.

I have given this a little thought as I love using lots of different fucking positions. I am always trying out new ones and my favourites are those that: get my cock in his ass as deep as possible; make him uncomfortable and vulnerable; and the best being any tense fucking position that’s carried out in a public place. I love fucking blokes in public. The only positions I don’t like are boring old missionary style (too intimate, have to watch him jacking off, he can never manage to keep his legs up long enough) and anything with the bottom on top of me – again, lots of facial contact, I don’t really like watching him jack off (especially if he cums on me…NO!) and essentially – he’s controlling his orgasm and I don’t like that. But the best (finally!) position for me is ME fucking HIM on his tummy, lying flat on the floor or bed or whatever. His legs are together and his ankles crossed, bringing his legs and ass cheeks as close together as possible. His arms and hands are either at his sides or outstretched in front of him. Why is this the best position? 1. If he has a nice ass, this position will show that off perfectly and makes for a great visual as your cock enters him 2. My cock can get as deep inside of him as possible 3. With his legs together the tightness of his hole is out of this world. Keep an eye on his legs, though, because he will naturally try to spread them as you go deeper. You make have to keep pushing his legs together – maybe consider ankle cuffs? 4. This position is usually uncomfortable to the bottom and he usually feels a bit helpless and probably a bit vulnerable – these are good things 5. I only bareback now but I used to stealth fuck and this position is the best for that. He can’t see you surreptitiously remove the condom and enter him bare – and he will never know he’s being barebacked until you cum inside him 6. With his arms and hands out of the way, he can’t tough his cock and to me that is important. I want him to focus all his attention on his asshole and my cock as it breaks him open. Keep an eye on his hands, though, because sneaky bottoms will always try to get their little hands on their cocks – maybe consider handcuffs? 7. In this position I don’t have to look at his face and sometimes, not always, I really like that 8. In this position, as he can’t jack off, I don’t have to watch him play with his cock and that is usually, not always, a good thing 9. Because he can’t watch me fucking him, he can’t see what I am doing and generally that is preferable 10. When I cum inside him I like to fall on top of him, exhausted, putting my full weight on his body. This pushes my cock and my cum load as far into his ass as possible Apologies for the long post, but this is my favourite position! Bart

I generally don't use lube so I guess it would be spit. Or commercial spit.

I think on a planned first date, he should be ready for all eventualities. Obviously this does not include spontaneous hook-ups with blokes, where there is no time for planning. But from my perspective, if I have reached the point of going on a date with a bloke, I would have already decided in my head that I am going to fuck him and he is going to suck my cock. So I think he should be ready for sex on our first date and definitely needs to have cleaned out his ass to be ready to get fucked. It may not come to pass, for whatever reason, but he definitely should be prepared. Bart

Hello Captain: Personally I am not bothered if he cums or not - so long as he doesn't cum BEFORE me. I hate that. That probably sounds a little selfish but I am being honest. When I am fucking a bloke and get down to the serious pounding of his arse, my head goes into a “zone” and my entire focus is on my cock, his arsehole and my pleasure in getting to climax and fill up his hole. The time for love and kisses and cuddling is gone and I can only concentrate on fucking and breeding. Maybe other tops experience this, too? But whilst I want him to enjoy himself and I don’t want to hurt him (well, I usually don’t want to hurt him!) I am not bothered about his orgasm at all and I have fucked lots of blokes who take a long time to cum and that’s okay. What usually happens: I blow my load in his ass, pull out, give him a kiss and maybe watch him jack off for a bit. If he doesn’t cum in about 3-4 minutes, I am off to the shower and by the time I come out, he has cum and has already cleaned up. Perfect. But as above, this question raises another one about the bottom cumming BEFORE the top and personally that pisses me off. But that question is for another day… Bart

I have always thought the IDEA of felching to be very hot and I love watching it, but after having done it twice about 2 years ago I have to admit that I don’t really like it. I love eating cum (anyone’s cum but my own) cum from a cock and I love eating ass – but when the two come together it just doesn’t do it for me. Maybe it’s because it’s MY cum that I am eating? My own sperm doesn’t really excite me. Plus, if I am fucking a bloke I am committed to breeding him; for me it’s so important he takes my cum load in his ass and keeps it there as long as he can. That makes me seem like a control freak but it’s just my thing so I just go with it. As such, I don’t want my own cum sliding down my throat, I want it in his ass. But who knows, maybe I will try it again soon and see what I think. Maybe I will have changed my mind?

Hey Lads: I just signed up and thought I would introduce myself. My name is Bartholomew but I go by Bart and I am a blond lad from London. I just turned 25 in January and am a TOP exclusively – I’ve been barebacking since day 1 (when I was about 16) and have barebacked exclusively for the last 3 years. I’m not sure how busy this board is but I am looking forward to reading and responding to some of the posts, and adding a few of my own. I’m not really looking for a relationship or to hookup for sex, but you never know... Bart

Married blokes are the best. In my experience it seems that when the wives are away, the lads are ready to play - and most of them want to do everything. I have fucked about half of the straight blokes I have been with and all of them loved sucking my cock and none of them had any problem with being barebacked. One bloke ate my ass for about an hour and couldn't get enough - they are so mad: give me a straight bloke every time!