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Bottoms should always put out for a top, even on the first date. That's my opinion. Being vers. I'll always let any guy fuck my ass, right from the start. I love the loads. As a top, I'd be frustrated and feel a bit put off, if a guy didn't put out.

Just got a new toy, the Dick Rambone. (Pic. below not me) It's great. I've gotten it half way in, and am looking forward to getting the rest of it fully in my ass. Has anyone else used this dildo, and if so, what was your opinion? There's also lot's of video's on this toy, if you're interested in googling and seeing guys using it.

Yes, you're right, the chances are extremely low that anyone should get HIV if they take Prep on a daily basis. That said, will you guarantee 100% that someone won't get HIV if they're on PreP? That is the point I'm making in my post. Yes, the chances are so low that "I" would use PreP if I was neg. to avoid getting HIV, WITH the knowledge that it's not a 100% guarantee. There are guys who want to use a condom if YOU give them a blow job, to make certain that they can't get anything from your mouth. I would say the chances of that are extremely low, but those guys who want 100% guarantee should realize that there are no 100% guarantee's unless you abstain from sex. That's where the RISK FACTOR comes in. If you're looking for an almost fail proof guarantee, PreP is a good idea. If you're looking for the "If I get HIV though I've used this method, someone will pay all my medical bills and make life back to normal" guarantee, then abstinence is you're best method. It's what the individual is willing to take for a risk that matters. Before I was poz, I chose to not use a condom all the time, and that was before Prep was even thought of. That was MY choice of RISK that I wanted to take. That said, I could say "Why use PreP?" Well, that was MY choice of risk factor I would take. So again, the risk factor is something like 99.999% guarantee that you're protected if you use the medications every day, and IF you have the ability to pay for it (My husbands is paid for by our insurance). But for 100% guarantee, you need to abstain. For good information on this, check out CDC.gov, the US Center for Disease Control. They have a lot of info. on risk factors with different forms of protection, compared to none.

If you were in the Nashville area, I'd take that ass of yours every chance I could.

Hope it was a fun night, fellow pig.

If I was closer and was a twink, I'd bb you bud.

I heard it said once, "Don't be a douche, douche! lol

I'd have told him I'd hold him to that, and that he had to bring me back and do the whole night over, with out his friend, and let it last for the weekend.

I've had an experience in a bath house where a friend of mine used a toy of his on my ass, while the door was open. He'd let guys come in and play with my ass as they wished, which included lot's of fucking and cum.

Always great to have a couple marine body guards, esp. if they're gay...or on the dl.

You're cute bud. Would love to flip fuck you if you were in Nashville.

Yes, the meds do slow down the progression. In fact, if the meds are used right, you can live a normal life, and die of something other than HIV. Don't get me wrong, there are still chances that it will get worse for some, but the average life expectancy of a young man getting hiv at 18-20y/o is to live until he's 69y./o. Average life expectancy for a non-hiv man in the US is 79y/o. So the disease IS manageable. I say this so that people with HIV don't get discouraged. As for those who are negative, know your risks. I will never tell anyone else what to do. I know guys who want HIV, and those who want NO chance of getting it. Even though studies have shown no transmission from an undetectable poz guy to a neg. guy, and if you couple that with a condom you are 99.999% unlikely to get HIV, BUT.... Yes, I said But. If you want NO chance of getting HIV, then abstain from sex all together. Just sit at home and wank. Extreme you might say? Yes, but it's the 100% guaranteed way of not getting HIV. Even sex with a woman with a condom might get you the disease. So what are you to do? Know the risks, and know what risks you're willing to take. If you don't want any chance, then certainly refuse to have sex with anyone who's POZ. It's a choice. You don't have to get on prep and hope not to get it. (Yes, there have been cases of guys getting HIV while on Prep, though limited and poss. due to wrong use of the meds.) Just like any other choices in sex, have sex with a 500 pound guy, or not, have sex with a guy with no meat on his bones or not, have sex with blondes, or not, have sex with other men, or women, or both.....They're ALL choices you make, depending on what you want. Yes, I know what it's like to be turned down by someone and feel unwanted, but it's still your choice. If you don't want any risk, then don't have sex with someone who's poz. If you don't mind some risk, then go for it, up to the point of risk you want to take. That means if you want a condom, then insist on it. I don't like sex with condoms, but it's YOUR choice, not his. Talk about it with the guy, and who knows, maybe he'll convince you to change your mind, but in the end, it's still your choice. And if you do become poz, then you know it was only your choice, just like the guy who get's passed around a room getting used by anyone with out insisting on a condom....it's their choice, and they have to live with that.

Ok, first thought is to reply with "Swallow, Swallow, and then Swallow", but that's hopefully obvious. Of course as Diamonds are a girls best friend, spending money on a guy is also a form of showing love....I do want a new laptop. lol

I use to go to the doctors office, pride centers, and other places where hey would constantly give me condoms to take home with me. I'd politely take them, and then at home would shove them in a drawer. Eventually I was starting to build a small collection, some older which I would use first if a top insisted on using a condom, but many newer ones. One day I decided that I didn't want to fuss with messy toys (Dildo's) so I started to use the condoms on my toys....if the toy/condom came out clean I'd just leave it on the toy. But if the toy/condom came out dirty, then I could simply peel the condom off, letting it turn inside out, and then tie the end and throw it away. It worked great. I've also found that condoms would help hold on e-stim cock wraps that wouldn't want to stay on a guys cock. By simply putting a condom over, I could keep the wrap in place, and keep the wire close to the cock so it wouldn't pull away while playing. I've also have used condoms for tops that were insisting on them, then had the top put the condom in a trash can I had near the bed. After they'd leave, I'd pull the condom out and use what was left inside for lube for one of my toys. So I wonder, has anyone found other good uses for condoms? Please post any uses you have found in the past, or be creative and make some suggestions to try. I hate to waste anything, so let's find some good uses for condoms.

Hope you're finding your Master, boi.

Hope you kept that load in deep for as long as you could.

Hope you had a good time, bud.

Not sure, I'm always open to any big cock, not just black.

A private location, and a willing hole is all I ask for.

So many holes go hungry at the bath house. I see it as every top or vers. guys responsibility to feed the hungry holes.

There's lots of poz guys who'd give you what you want, bud. I certainly wouldn't mind fucking a nice willing hole.

Take you out on the town, and let others see you as the princess you are. Wish I was in NYC.

The cruel condom is a more of a bdsm thing. It's like using a sound or tins units....the pain is part of the fun. If you don't understand, you either need to open up and let an experienced guy help you learn, or run the other direction.

Did your "trusted" only have sex with you? A top, who's clean, CAN get hiv from a bottom. Yes, it's less likely, but he CAN get it from topping. And what if he's vers. like me? I fucked dozens of guys between the time I had the flu (probably fuck flu from converting) to the time I found I was poz. I didn't even know anything about the fuck flu at the time. So I thought I was still negative. And yet I got fucked by other guys who could have contracted it from me. And I topped other guys, who probably DID get it from me, with out either of us knowing. And even though a lot of this was anon. sex, some of it wasn't. Fortunately for my friends I fucked, they all remained negative, but I can't say anything for the ones I didn't know....I had no way of contacting them. So if your trusted top had just had sex with say his wife if he's bi, but she was just fucked recently by another poz bi guy, then you could be taking a risk. So unless you've got the guy locked up in a dungeon, and testing him daily for several months (Since the HIV may not show up for some time), you're taking a RISK. Just know the facts, bud. I know a lot of guys I've met since being poz, who have told me about giving the disease to others, before they knew they had it. I hope that's enough said.

I agree with the bare being the best. The mental side of things also includes for many men the fact that there is a connection, physical, that is so fucking hot. I mean the idea that you're willing to take my load for me, as a top, gets me going. As a bottom I know that I'm showing my top that I'll take his load, and I want him fully inside me, no barriers. I love french kissing, and getting inside guys minds, or having them get inside mine, but if I then say "I want a condom", I feel I've shown that I WON'T do anything for the guy. But that said, I also became poz having BB sex. And even though this site is for BB sex, you need to know your risks, and be willing to take them. I've been poz for over a decade now, and am healthier than a lot of people who don't have HIV. So I don'[t mind it, but be willing to take the risk. And if you were to, and got poz, then seek out some good friends to help you along the path....I'll be here waiting if you would need.