I'm nowhere near either of you, but I'm a versatile top who needs lots of variety. Without an automobile (not to mention lots of unnecessary stress from apartment management), I spend a lot of time & energy walking & taking public transportation to get things done including to & from work; also, it's been 5 years since I lived near a popular cruising park area where I used to fuck regularly. Otherwise, I would be making sure as many bottoms as possible have their needs met.