I think that relaxing your hole when the guy starts shooting, is more enjoyable for the top. A guy that has been breeding me regularly for the last 2 years says than when I open up my hole he is able to feel what he calls my “second ring” and that his seed reaches the right spot. That he feels his sperm is serving the purpose and there will be no sperm leaking. All must be absorbed and impregnating me. We both share a breeding fetish so we decided to establish “fertile” days in a certain week of the month. Since we both travel for work, during my “fertile” week one of us always travel to meet the other. I like flying back carrying his seed inside me or attending a meeting knowing that he has travel just to breed me. Bottom line, relax your holes guys!