I found out I was POZ on March 21, 2001. And have been for the past 19 years, When I get ready to either have sex with someone or going to fuck them, I usually tell them I'm POZ, However being undectable for about 17 years. A lot of what has been said in this forum that when you let someone BB you; Granted you are taking a chance. Go with what your gut is telling you.
If your that horny then go for the full monty.