I'd like that - but when I saw that this was about limits being stretched, I thought of things apart from fucking, but, starting with that, I'd like a man who I KNEW was poz and toxic (not on meds) to pinprick my arse and the deposit more than one toxic load there. Ideally, he should have some mates with him who add their loads to his. Away from fucking, I have enjoyed tt and cbt in the past, and would like to have my limits extended there - being blindfolded and having ice on parts of my body and then Deep Heat, and then a feather, then ice, then a lash or two - these are all things i have done and would enjoy revisiting, both giving and receiving!!