This is my favourite position but I like lots of others, too. I tend to like positions where I don’t have to look at the bloke I am fucking and I am in control and he is willing to be controlled – hopefully there is no (^*&^*&(& involved, or indeed compromise. If I have real feelings for him or he’s a good mate, obviously sex is more “intimate”. I don’t do the condom-removal-stealth-bareback-breeding anymore, but I guess fucking in this position this is a FORM of stealthing – before entering his ass I never announce “I am now going to bareback you”. I think by that stage, it is assumed by both parties. Bart