Dear Bareback Michael,
I'm a 44 year old guy here and I love the barebacking scene but I am finding more often then not it's hard to keep hard. I've been checked out medically and everything's cool and I can be jerked off or do myself but when with another guy it's hard to keep hard. Any ideas?
Limp Biscuit
Answer:
Dear Limp Biscuit,
You can't get hard with a guy? Maybe you aren't gay. Have you tried fucking a girl? Just kidding. Assuming that you know you want to fuck a guy but just can't insert slot A into Tab B there are a bunch of possible shit that could be going on here.
First off, as we get older the amount of testosterone (our man juice) starts to drop. You can still be medically OK, but you won't be able to fuck like a teenager. If that's the case just ask your doctor for some Viagra. Bareback Michael tried it a couple weeks ago and was able to fuck nine times in one night. Not too fucking shabby.
You also could be nervous or guilty. Do you have some issues about your queerness? If that's the case you may just need to get more comfortable with yourself and find a partner who will make you feel relaxed and comfortable and let you get your wood at your own pace. It's fucking. It's not a race or a contest.
Are you on any anti depressants? Some anti depressants like Lexapro can make it difficult to get or maintain an erection. If you are on any joy pills try going off them for a few weeks and see what happens. If you see a dramatic difference talk to you doctor about changing your meds.
Perhaps you like to bareback but the AIDS Nazis have made you feel guilty about your desires. If so, get over it! You deserve the best sex a man can get.
Write me back and let me know what happens. I like to know that all my little piggies are getting as dirty as they can possibly get!
Hugs,
Bareback Michael
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